Problems in relationships usually begin with the violation of personal boundaries. Many often complain that their partners violate their boundaries, but at the same time, they do not notice how they themselves do the same. #personal_boundaries are a kind of your individual set of rules that you do not allow anyone to break. Even the closest people. At the beginning of a relationship, this is not particularly noticeable; partners see mainly the positive sides of each other. But later, when the relationship gains momentum, they are faced with the fact that their views do not coincide in some way. On life principles, on what is good for them and what is bad. If you have a principled position on some issues, and you are not going to change it at any price, then hold your position to the end. Be frank and uncompromising. Don't make the mistake of people who, at the beginning of a relationship, try to seem better than they are, and then reveal their true colors. Now I’m not talking about the fact that on the first dates you need to spill the whole truth about yourself and admit all your imperfections. It’s normal that at first we want to attract a partner and present ourselves to him as a souvenir. I’m talking specifically about the moments that are fundamentally important for you, which you will not be ready to give up even for the sake of your loved one. For example, this could be: communication with friends, smoking, the way you dress, work, your appearance, your hobbies, your attitude towards having children... everyone has something different. And if this “something” is important to you, then do not allow yourself to bend. It is better to immediately indicate to the person your personal boundaries, beyond which you do not allow anyone to go. This will save you from further attempts to remake you by your partner. He will at least have a chance to accept or not accept you initially with your personal principles and boundaries. In my opinion, this is fair. What do you think? Put 👍And write in the comments, are you able to build personal boundaries? Has your partner tried to change you? Or maybe he tried to forbid you something?🤔🤗Colleagues, add yourself to My Telegram channel for psychologists