Abuse people often say something like this: “I just love you very much, so I lose my temper, I’m jealous and I can’t control it, this happens because of my strong feelings for you.” I get so upset when she doesn’t want to listen to me - Yes, I used aggression in the relationship, but I warned her not to even try to leave me, because I love her so much! - It hurts and disgusts me to see how she ruins her life, I could not help but act in this situation! Aggressive and tyrannical people often instill in their partners such an idea where their cruelty appears because they love them too much, but face the truth. Aggression and cruelty are the opposite of the warm feeling of love. The more and more aggression an abusive person shows towards their partner, the more they show that they are only concerned with themselves. In turn, the desire to receive your care and love will not go away, but he does not want to give the same warm feelings; in rare cases, this manifests itself at moments when it is convenient for him. The question remains open whether a cruel person is lying when he says that he loves you? Most cruel people feel what they call "attraction", and to this attraction they give a name - love. For many men, "attraction" is one of the feelings that they can feel for their woman at all, which means that they will never be able to understand what love is. When tyrannical men experience something like this, they most likely mean the following: Total confidence, and the desire for you to dedicate your life to him, focusing on satisfying his needs. Completely possessing your partner sexually, regardless of time. Taking advantage of your relationship, to impress others. Absolute control, always and everywhere. The truth is that even such a person can truly love his partner, perhaps even start a family, but it is extremely important for him to change his thinking in order to understand that you are not the thing is that you cannot be someone's property so that he begins to see his woman as a person, real. Then he will be able to show care and love, he will begin to see the world from the other side. Psychological counseling Sergey Popov - https://www.b17.ru/popov_sergey Phone - 89152853918