What do our children need to receive from their parents? Receive no matter what? This is much more important than air and water... Of course you will agree with me, this is LOVE. Free, unconditional and selfless.. For a child, parents are authoritative people. Therefore, he believes every word you say and accepts it as true. You are the whole world to him! How to raise a child? How to praise and scold him? After all, we love him no matter what, whether he’s dirty or screaming or whatever. When we don’t like a child’s behavior, it is his behavior or action that we don’t like, not the child himself. It is important to convey this to him. -I don’t like your action! You acted cruelly! It is very important not to attach “labels” to the child, which may burden him throughout his life or he will have to get rid of them in the psychologist’s office. When we talk about an action or behavior, then the child understands that he did not do the right thing, but for his parents he remained as loved as he was. And it is the behavior that will change. And the child’s self-esteem will remain without distortion. He will still consider himself a favorite child. Praising your child correctly is also important! When we only praise a child for his accomplished deeds. We don’t see it, we don’t notice it, we look through it. giving preference and showing importance to his efforts. What if suddenly he doesn’t succeed, if he loses everything? That this will make us love him less? Of course not. It is very important for the child that you be with him, ask him about how he did it, ask him about it in more detail and listen carefully. - I really like your drawing! Tell me what is so beautiful? It is very important for a child to share with his loved one, with someone he trusts. And for parents it is important to maintain a trusting relationship. May the amount of light increase every day in your relationship with your children.!