Various ailments keep bothering you every now and then, but the prescribed treatment does not help? Perhaps it was not the body that malfunctioned at all, but the soul that was suffering because of a loved one? Take a closer look at your symptoms and perhaps you will understand what they are trying to tell you... Unfortunately, love relationships are not always cloudless happiness and comfort. On the contrary, quite often they do not turn out the way we want. And, without receiving support and understanding from our partner, we experience various negative experiences. We may feel jealousy, guilt, feel inferior, humiliated or broken. But in order to realize and process all these feelings, you need a lot of energy and strength, which some of us don’t have at all. Then our wise psyche finishes the job for us and simply sends the unaccepted and unconscious experiences into the body. This is how many of our diseases appear, which are called psychosomatic. Let’s take a closer look at how exactly problems in relationships can affect health. Allergies. Skin is our barrier, a conventional border that runs between us and the outside world. And if this “protective fence” suddenly begins to itch, become covered with spots and blisters, this is a signal that we do not feel too safe in the relationship. Often such symptoms occur in the case of codependent relationships and can be associated both with a panicky fear of losing a partner, and with the fear of losing one’s “I” and dissolving in a loved one. Bronchitis. The respiratory tract is how vital oxygen enters our body, and with it energy for further activity. Accordingly, if you are constantly tormented by bronchitis, then perhaps in your relationship with your partner you do not have enough air, the “oxygen exchange” is disrupted. Such symptoms can occur in those couples where people do not give enough freedom to each other, or one of the partners feels insufficient realized through the fault of another (for example, when a woman is forced to sit at home and do housework because of her husband’s tough position). Sinusitis. Inflammation of the maxillary sinuses is a disease that causes difficulty breathing, and therefore difficulty communicating with the environment. Often this disease occurs when in a relationship a person constantly suppresses his true feelings, because he is afraid to go into conflict or get upset. Suppressed negative emotions, in turn, seem to block a person’s life, preventing him from living fully, so to speak, breathe deeply. Gastritis. The stomach is the organ in which the digestion of food we absorb or, metaphorically, information occurs. And, if the work of this organ fails, it means that in the relationship with a partner, we cannot “digest” something. This happens, for example, if a couple has an uncertain, painful relationship. For example, a woman dates a married man and suffers because her beloved does not leave the family. She is in a state of limbo and feels anger or resentment about this, but cannot express these feelings. Herpes Herpes is another type of metaphorical barrier that arises between us and the outside world. And since herpes usually appears in the most intimate areas of our body (lips, genitals), it can be assumed that this barrier also concerns sexual relations with a partner. Such an increase in intimate distance may be associated with negative feelings about the partner’s behavior, which we do not we can express resentment, irritation, anger, fear, and so on. For example, this is often how we try to cope with the pain after experiencing betrayal. Headache. The head is the most important part of our body, responsible for both social status and our self-esteem. It is no coincidence that we only allow those closest to us to touch our face or hair, and even then not always. Frequent headaches may indicate your dissatisfaction with yourself, a tendency to self-deprecation, and fixation on shortcomings. Headaches can also be unconscious.