What does a person lack? What does he lack? A person actually needs a lot of things. Starting with bodily needs, emotional satisfaction and ending with the search for true knowledge and higher meaning. When a person enters into relationships with other people, he is guided by a lot of motives: - the need for caring for another person - the need to be understood and heard - the need to get rid of the fear of loneliness - the need to take care of another and be needed by someone - the need for the other to be responsible for certain aspects of life - the need to satisfy social recognition - the need to occupy free time - and other needsWhere can a lack or deficiency be revealed here? Everything that a person expects from another, he does not find in his life. For example, he cannot do anything alone. Or he cannot make a decision concerning his life alone. Of course, a person needs a person who is at least more fun together, but we are now talking about such a lack that leads to suffering for no apparent reason. For example, a woman is married, her husband is somewhere nearby, in another room. And she misses his attention. Either he communicates with children, then with friends, or watches TV. This kind of scarcity is very difficult to satisfy. Because a person expects that someone from outside should satisfy this lack. And in order for the same husband to give flowers, the woman spends a lot of energy on taking care of him, inspiring him, getting offended, forcing him in the end. Paradoxically , but often a woman doesn’t even know what flowers she would like today. In fact, you want attention, you want to satisfy the lack. What you get is this energy circulation pattern. Expectations look like this: she is for him, and he is for her. In fact, two people are two autonomous systems: And of course, between them there is another circle of circulating energy, but this is not, let’s say, a “main course”, but rather a “dessert”. How to transform lack into prosperity? You need to direct your energy to meet their needs and requirements. Buy yourself flowers, give yourself a ticket to a concert, choose a new look for the weekend. A person will always have the energy to realize what he would like. Sometimes it just needs to be released from some other processes (for example, blocked as a result of a traumatic experience). And gradually saturation will come, and the shortage will turn into abundance. Therapy of early childhood traumas, Analysis and improvement of relationships in couples Work with psychosomatics ☎+79163129725 Sign up for a session by message on What's app or here.