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An interesting question that I decided to answer in writing. Question: How to learn to read a person's eyes?1. First of all, you need to study the main areas of eye movements, the map of which is attached to this text. (Visual construction, auditory recall, internal dialogue, etc.) 2. Next, you should train to observe the eyes of your interlocutor during the conversation, comparing his speech and eye movements in certain zones depending on the context of the conversation.3. Learn to interpret the correspondence between the position of the eyes and the context of the conversation. For example - you ask a person - “do you know the elephant Chani?” Before answering, the interlocutor sitting opposite made a movement with his eyes up and slightly to the right. This is a zone of visual memory, which means that most likely we have a visual person who once saw Chani. If his eyes moved rather sharply up and to the left, there is a high probability that the interlocutor did not see the desired elephant, or even live elephants at all; if he answers the opposite, most likely he is lying or does not remember his meeting at the zoo at all.4 . Having completed these 3 steps, you will probably be able to understand a lot from comparing the context of the conversation and the eye movements of the interlocutor. Most likely, you will already intuitively monitor the degree of tension in his muscles, intonation and a dozen other parameters. Much will already be clear to you.5. The next level is the transfer of this skill into “background mode” - this is when your unconscious processes this entire array of information automatically. The level of good psychologists, interviewers, probably professional gypsies, intelligence officers, politicians. Good luck!