I have a client at my appointment. Young woman - 35 years old. Works in a large company. In a good position. He makes decent money. At the same time, he complains about ⬇“I just can’t improve my relationship with money. I just don't have them. As soon as they appear, I immediately distribute them. I lend money and they don’t pay me back. I give it to relatives. I help my friends. I donate to orphanages. And then - once, I woke up as if from a dream. And I'm at zero! And then I sit and suck my paw.” I suggested that I show her in action “once, I woke up as if from a dream.” And that’s when she and I came across a situation that she didn’t remember at all before coming to me⬇“We have always had austerity in our family. Every penny counted. The father controlled the money. And then one day my sister stole the money. She was 3 years older than me. She told me not to talk, “otherwise it would get worse.” And everyone: dad, mom and grandma thought about me. And they demanded that I give it back. How could I give away what I didn’t have?! Then the father put a wooden board on the table. He took my hands. He put it on her. And he raised the ax. Then he waved as if he was going to cut him off. I closed my eyes in fear. All I heard was the sound of an ax on the board. I remember how afraid I was to open my eyes. And look at your hands. Because I didn’t feel my body.” When she told me this story, I felt freezing and cold inside. The client left the session with the realization that from that terrible day she learned a hard lesson that you can’t hold money in your hands. It doesn't matter whose. Someone else's or our own. This may result in a terrible punishment! Therefore, you need to get rid of them. This is how her child’s psyche worked. Our task now is to emotionally relive this story and react from an adult position. And transform the lesson into the way she wants. How do you like the methods of education? Share in the comments Your Psychologist-Sexologist Ekaterina Ivanova Still have questions? Write me! To sign up for a consultation, write to me in a personal message in any messenger convenient for you at ☎+7 919 119 17 91■In Contact: https://vk.com/psiholog_ivanovaek Taplink: https://psihologivanovaek.taplink.ws