Unfortunately, for many parents, the answer to the question posed is obvious - the naughty and mischievous child himself is to blame, of course! Therefore, the parents’ reaction to the child’s inappropriate behavior is often scolding from adults, followed by punishment of the child. In the moment, this gives parents the illusion that they are doing the right thing and thus raising a capricious child, controlling the situation. However, everything is absolutely the opposite. The child only grasps punishment, which does not resolve his internal problems. And the reasons for the child’s dissatisfaction and aggression remain unexamined, which will certainly lead to relapses in childhood and adolescent behavior only with more serious consequences. What should you pay attention to when you see that your child is breaking and breaking everything? The very fact of destruction of those around him a child's things and toys indicate that the child's perception is experiencing certain problems in the environment that surrounds him. The desire to break and destroy something is an external signal that the child needs help. Through aggression towards surrounding objects, a small person tries to convey to adults that they are not yet able to realize and formulate independently through speech. At the same time, parents should know and understand that behind such actions there can be completely different motives in behavior. The child may experience fear or fright, hostility, irritation, grief, parental alienation, repeated physical discomfort or painful symptoms. Aggression towards things can be caused in response to someone else's aggression towards the child. Such inadequacy in children's reactions often becomes a repetition of parental behavior, or is a consequence of improper communication between parents and other adult relatives with the child, who is either overly patronized or overly controlled. Therefore, without understanding the reasons for children’s aggressive “pranks,” in no case should one resort to educational measures through condemnation or punishment. This is the most common parental mistake, which in the future only intensifies undisclosed childhood experiences and aggravates problems in communication between parents and children. It is dangerous not to pay attention to children's aggression in the hope that the child will change with age. The cause of children's whims must be clarified immediately, and it is better to do this with the participation of a family psychologist. You can sign up for a consultation via WA, Telegram 8918-075-25-08