“The main thing in life is modesty” Grown-up modest girls cannot promote themselves on the Internet, cannot sell, cannot describe their product. They are embarrassed to share even the excellent results of their clients. That’s why they sit in poverty. They can’t ask for a salary increase and are embarrassed to apply for a position. They can’t choose a husband for themselves, but are waiting for some runt with sky-high self-esteem to pick them up. They can’t get off properly, because they are embarrassed about liberation in sex. They suffer from a complex of impostors and dropouts. They are waiting to be appreciated by others who only care about themselves, not about them. “The main thing in life is to be honest.” Pathologically honest adult girls always doubt themselves. After all, truth does not exist in reality at all. What if she says that she is tired? What if she wasn’t tired, but sick? What if you didn’t get sick, but just didn’t get enough sleep? Then they will call her a malingerer, a liar? Therefore, an honest girl lives in eternal neurosis. They cannot advance in their profession because they mold the harsh truth into the eyes of all their colleagues and senior management. They turn into outcast sneaks. And it’s good that it’s not always Pavlikov. They can’t choose a man for themselves either. They reveal the naked truth about the appearance or habits of their chosen one already on the first date. Their first sex with each man is often their last, since the naked truth about his clubbed hand stands up as a wall between them. They suffer from anxious loneliness or neurosis. And because no one in this world understood them. They want to do what is best, in truth. But it turns out very offensive. “The main thing in life is to study well.” Adult excellent students turn into eternal students. They study and study, but rarely work. Nothing was said about work after studying. Therefore, you need to study, and everything else will follow. They are constantly chasing advanced training, because they consider themselves insufficiently prepared to start earning money. They constantly take courses in cooking, public speaking, massage and promotion. They learn to get married, but do not get married . They learn to have sex, but don't practice it. Because they didn’t study hard enough and can’t disgrace themselves. They learn to control their orgasm, but rarely even understand what this means in practice. They are all in their head, not in their body. They suffer from insomnia, perfectionism, heavy thoughts and nightmares. They have a lot of recordings and downloaded materials that they don’t read or watch. Such girls have no time to live. They need to learn. For what? To live “correctly”. What if someone gives a bad mark for behavior? Do you have at least one parental instruction? Do you want to wash it? I suggest getting rid of it at the three-day Arbor. A group of ordinary people will gather in the Telegram channel from March 29 to April 1. You can ask about the conditions of participation in the comments. Irina Nikolaevna PaninaDoctor of Psychology, hypnologist, tarot readerTogether we will find the path to your hidden capabilities.