I continue the topic about dating. Yes, in order to get acquainted, it is not necessary to think only about what impression we will make, it is important not to forget to take care of what impression the prospective partner made on us and is suitable whether he is for us. It is important to take risks and start getting acquainted. As my friend said, in two hundred years no one will remember this, meaning that even if we suddenly find ourselves in some awkward situation, then no one will really care about it except our imagination. Well, I talked about all this in previous publications on this topic. I just reminded you of the main points. And so, let’s continue the topic with new thoughts. Often, this can be especially expressed in adolescence, but it often happens later, it seems to us that the other (girl or man) is so confident, everything knowing how to behave, how to make acquaintances, such a celestial being is almost ideal. Does this happen? Have you encountered? And the other one, even if it’s some kind of beautiful girl, is also shy, feels awkward, embarrassed, sometimes doesn’t know what to say, how to behave, what’s best to do, and so on. If everyone turns out exceptionally better than us, more confident and so on for us in our own imagination, then it is appropriate to think about why we are so exceptional that we turn out to be worse than everyone else. It's somehow unreal. Here it is important to notice and accept your strengths, although this may require therapy, and to understand that the other is not all so unrealistically ideal, but always remains, in general, exactly the same person as others and the same experiences is experiencing. If until now you thought that the other (or another) is so inaccessible, all of himself, confident, and we are so doubtful, shy, then maybe try to start right now, right in the comments below, to make sure, reasoning, that and we have many virtues and that we have the right to experience, and that this is natural, and that the other is not free from these very experiences and doubts and there is some evidence of this (and there is nothing bad in the experiences of the other either, since we are all - living people, and these experiences make us human, make us humane, so to speak) Good luck with your dating!