The rejected complex is one of the most common in psychology and approximately 80% of the population of the planet earth has it. To understand what this is, you can imagine a baby crying his eyes out as soon as his mother leaves the room. Inside each of us there lives such a baby (our childish part), and his fear of being rejected, unloved, not chosen gives us a lot of trouble in adulthood 🤷🏻‍♀Judge for yourself. How does the rejected complex manifest itself?➡▪total inability to build and define one’s boundaries▪inability to tell a person that his behavior is unacceptable, for fear of losing him▪as a consequence, the inability to get out of abusive relationships (both personal and social)▪self-doubt, constant depreciation, low self-esteem▪extremely difficult coping with any misunderstandings, quarrels and breakups▪high degree of suspiciousness and egocentric position “everything happens because of me” (I wrote about this in detail in a telegram)▪absence or extremely low degree of self-love and self-respect ( there is no habit of choosing the best for yourself, focusing on your desires and goals, and in general a weak understanding of both) ▪in business: fear of raising prices, impostor syndrome, workaholism, frequent procrastination Without taking out my glass ball🔮, I can say with confidence that a person with a rejected complex has at least 1 episode of dependent relationships in his stash (and, as an option, other addictions: food, 🍷, 🚬, shopping, etc.). And this is a risk group in the future, even if at the moment you are not in such a relationship. Also, the rejection complex is the best friend of another complex - the “good girl”👸🏻, which also does not add to the quality of life😅If you recognize yourself in These points, I sincerely recommend that you think about therapy for this complex if your plans for the future include a happy, independent, fulfilling life🌚🔥🚀The good news here is that you can get rid of it: through the creation of integrity, the formation of internal supports, the activation of the Adult parts and working with boundaries🖤and there are many successful examples☺👌🏼Techniques for independent psychological work are available on my telegram channel, to get a complete database of techniques for any request (both client and for independent work), write in private messages or to telegram