🥰 The ability to evoke sympathy is an important communication skill. It is nice people who awaken the desire to meet more often. Mutual sympathy makes relationships deeper and richer. Optimism and confidence are important qualities for the emergence of sympathy. Therefore, it is important to be able to see the good in other people and talk about them, it is also important to celebrate your virtues.💭 If we talk about thoughts, they can get in the way: - “bragging is bad”, “talking about yourself means being selfish”, “what if others think , that I’m an “upstart””, “I’m not good/smart/handsome enough to interest you”, “I don’t know how to meet people/communicate”...😓 Self-confidence and boastfulness can really be repulsive, but this is the case when a person talks exclusively about himself and does not listen to the interlocutor, is not interested in him. He only talks about himself, very much embellishing reality... but, if what you are talking about is true, reality, then talking about yourself can have a positive effect in communication. The interlocutor can see that you are doing important and interesting things (the main thing is to see for yourself that they are such, for example, in depressive states it can be difficult for a person to notice this). The interlocutor may become interested and continue the conversation) How else can the interlocutor find out what you have in common if you don’t talk? How can he know that you are ready for interaction if you don’t come to meet him?😖And if the interlocutor is dissatisfied? Not ready to communicate? What’s scary about this? It can be scary that “they didn’t like me” and can lead in a mental chain to thoughts that “I’m unattractive in general”, “I’m not capable of anything”... but is this so? Could it be that Is the interlocutor simply not ready to interact now or do his interests differ? Is it possible to look for another person in this case... there are quite a lot of people in the world.👩🏻‍🎓🧑🏻‍🎓It’s normal to learn, to develop your communication skills))) everyone knows how to say “hello”, my name is…, then… you can experiment and train… also, is there a “recipe” to get anyone interested? It’s unlikely... you can start talking about the place of study... ask where the interlocutor studies... about the weather, the atmosphere of the place where you met... By the reaction of the interlocutor you can see whether he likes the interaction or not. If he likes it, then usually: 🤲The person is turned towards you; to questions;❓He is interested in himself, asks questions;Looks you in the eye (at least sometimes);😁 Smiles at you🛟What ideas can help you learn to communicate in order to arouse sympathy: “A person may like me or not, that’s normal,” “I a good person with different interests”, “in a conversation it is important to talk about yourself and be interested in the interlocutor”, “people are different, I can find a person with whom it will be mutually interesting”, “I will come up to meet you and tell you about myself, otherwise the person will not know, that I’m interested in him”🏋And, of course, practice is important))) It’s great to train the skill of getting to know each other and arousing sympathy at every opportunity) The more you get to know each other, the more you practice talking about your achievements and interests, the better and easier it will be to succeed! Enjoy communication 🌈