Here I will refer to “ex-relationships” as relationships with “exes” (husbands and wives). And let me clarify again - husbands and wives are not only partners legalized through the registry office, or slyly called “common-law” spouses. These are ALL the Significant Men (Significant Women) in our lives who have seriously changed our views on gender relations. These include: – ALL sexual partners (for women – FIRSTLY those from whom there is a born or unborn child); – ​​your “first love”, especially with a sad aftertaste; – those who harassed you for a long time or, conversely, to whom you sighed; - wooed by your parents, especially since childhood; - rapists (it hurts, but you have to), bewitchers, warmed up, swindlers, etc. - remember for yourself. They all need to be given a place in the heart and in their family system. No, you don’t have to give it if you don’t want a normal relationship and want your children and grandchildren to repeat your glorious path. I am writing for those who, for some reason, are unable to build HARMONIOUS partnerships.🍀 Because the main task is to end a relationship competently, I remind you: remember them, see them in the Field, accept them, thank them for the lessons-help-experience, pick up the fragments of your soul ( i.e., to return what we still retain from the “ex”) and, accordingly, give him the fragments of his own soul. Sometimes it turns out that despite 4-5 hours of work, we simply do not have time to carry out the procedure for “ending a former relationship” (the same goes for the procedure for “recognizing unborn children”). Completing the generic weaves is a more important task. But it is also very desirable to end the relationship. And what should you do if the number of Significant Exes is sometimes in the double digits? For those who are reading my articles for the first time, I will say that the “Path of Rod” method is my personal modification of field constellations (according to Hellinger), which I conduct live and online at IRC ( Metaphorical Placement Cards). The MRC decks were also selected by me, and include not only characteristic emotional characters - male, female and children's faces, but also generic, “historical” and archetypal images. 🍀 So, when there are a lot of figures in the Field and there is no time to work (look at connections and give them a rightful place in your family system) with them, I use a life hack. Namely: I place the substitute cards of ALL selected husbands and wives in one holder, and we give them “wholesale” their rightful place in the Field. And then, also wholesale, the client recognizes them and releases them (I gave a general template for this procedure earlier). And after completing the technique, I give “homework”: independently carry out the procedure of “ending the former relationship” with EVERY wholesale partner. The same applies to those “formers” whom the client sometimes remembers after the constellation. And, you know, everything goes well - the memory is fresh, the algorithm of the procedure is familiar, and the consciousness is cleared. Perhaps some practicing lovers of “package sessions” will say that I am mistaken, that I am a lousy marketer, that each person should have a separate procedure-session for “ending a former relationship” and “recognizing unborn children” (that is, a dozen sessions instead of one Gender Arrangement). Of course, there is a reason - 5-10 paid sessions instead of one. But somehow it doesn’t resonate with me, it’s not interesting. Why “bind” a client? Why should a client pay for something he can do himself? And the result from the above independent work will be higher. So, if you want to work on your own, write in a personal message and I’ll send you MRCs (Metaphorical Arrangement Cards). Today there are 115 male, 128 female and 56 child and “unborn” characters.* At the request of the copyright holder of the word “Constellation” - the Institute of Consulting and Systemic Solutions (director - certified trainer in systemic constellations, Doctor of Pedagogical Sciences Mikhail Burnyashev) name “The “Rod Arrangement” method has been replaced with the “Rod Path” method»