Sometimes we want to add some spices and seasonings to our love, like to a good dish, and that’s not bad. But here it is very important not to overdo it, so that the dish is and remains truly very tasty and refined. This is what is important. We, for example, may really love adding garlic or onions everywhere, but if we are already oversaturated with it and add them even where they have no place at all, for example, in some desserts, then nothing tasty and sophisticated This definitely won't work out. It is also important to understand that everything should be in moderation. Therefore, do not go too far with the “spices”, because you may even become emotionally dependent on your partner. This can be understood by the fact that even if you no longer like your “favorite onion or garlic,” you still continue to “shove” them into yourself day after day and even cry from this “burning love.” I think you understand my analogy. That’s why sometimes it’s so necessary to stop in time with all these “spices” and try to just feel the “dish”, that is, your love for each other as it is. Yes, at first it may seem to you that without “seasonings” it is bland and somehow not so tasty, but this is all a matter of habit. Wait a little and you will get rid of this deceptive feeling. Try to feel this real taste without seasonings or any other “additions” with a “flavor enhancer”. I'm sure you'll like it. The main thing is not to exclude all these seasonings from your life altogether. “Don’t get hooked” on “condiments” if you want not to forget how to simply enjoy simple, healthy, but wonderful-tasting “dishes” and the joys of life. This can be especially noticeable in love. Therefore, all these attempts to diversify your relationship are, of course, great and even wonderful, but only if both partners want it and no one is against the “seasonings” that you have chosen to improve your situation. But if you want the effect of them to be as strong and long as possible, then use them in moderation, and not every day, and then your “dish” will be even more desirable and tasty for you and your loved one. Take care of each other. Good luck to you! My course for women who want to be happy in a relationship with a man: here Book a consultation with me: here My services as an author of articles for fellow psychologists: here If the article was useful and interesting for you, do not forget to click “thank you” and also subscribe so as not to miss my new articles) Sincerely, Your psychologist, Victoria Kirsta