Mom “protects” the child from dad. Or the father from the child. The mother intervenes in a neutral conversation between the father and the child: where everything is or what happened at school today, is responsible for the interlocutors, and advocates. It looks as if she is in a hurry to occupy any free piece of space between the child and her husband. Or the inability to endure even 5-minute pauses of silence in a conversation: to insert one’s word, which is often unnecessary and out of place. A woman’s unconscious desire to push herself between her husband and child, between children (brothers, sisters) is often felt by her as a defense of the interests of one of them (possibly alternately). Both sides, between which she literally wedges, become weak and insufficient for independent constructive communication. As a result, when there are “many mothers,” all interactions in the family are indirect, through the mother. Indirect communication is incomplete psychological contact when feedback is difficult or absent. There is a lot of mothers not only in the child’s relationship with the father, it can also be relationships between brothers, sisters, and other relatives. Features of a specific family system. Wherever the mother constantly wedges in, insists on being an endless guide between others, trusting open relationships between family members are broken. Over time, as a result, irritation and aggression accumulate, by the way, thereby giving the mother new evidence of the need to bring herself into any interaction (they won’t agree on their own!), distancing loved ones more and more from each other. The main thing in such stories is for the mother to realize her actions and stop them. Give your loved ones a chance to communicate without her. Be silent without her. Swear without her. Interact. You must understand that such a mother is most often sincerely unable to draw reasonable conclusions on her own. She needs feedback. Psychologist or group. Well, then, in fact, a completely different story begins. About where mom is always there, and not about how there is too much of her. You can sign up with the author through the website, write to e-mail: [email protected] Write whatsapp, viber +79621898819 On social networks: https://vk.com/ varioshkinaFB_LINK