Controlling woman. Why do many women try to control everything in relationships))? Why do they control because they are codependent, and why are they codependent because they control). And indeed, control destroys not only the personality, but also relationships and the other person in them. In relationships, thanks to control, very strong tension is always created. Where it exists, both partners seem to be constantly on edge and ready to duel at any moment. An interesting feature is that if a woman begins to control everything in a relationship and sees some positive “results,” then she attributes all the credit to herself, and if any happens then difficulties and problems, others immediately begin to blame. Let me explain that this is not only a feature of female behavior, but a feature of codependent behavior in general. Such women always know better than anyone what their husbands, children, and relatives should do. Essentially, an attempt to control everything is a codependent, neurotic reaction, which often leads to various destructive emotional states, such as sadness, depression, despondency, melancholy, etc. And when such people come for a consultation, you can immediately see them and see what problems they will face. For example, a married couple came for consultation. They had just entered my office when the woman immediately turned on the control button)). She said: “Sit on this chair, get me some water, it will be hot, take off your sweater.” It feels like a mother has brought a child, and this is, if anything, a thirty-year-old man. And therefore, often under this guise of care and kindness one can see the usual codependent control and pattern of behavior that deprives a person of responsibility for his life, paralyzes his will and makes him a Victim. And many women, unfortunately, confuse pity with love, support with salvation. Therefore, one of the main goals of psychotherapy, most often, is to teach people with neurotic and codependent reactions to recognize their destructive patterns and get out of the Karpman triangle. And you control your loved ones)? And if the article seemed interesting to you and could help you in some way, share it on social networks, and as I say, respect to you, useful content and + to karma 🙏)))