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There are many psychological reasons for infertility, I will talk about those that I encountered in my practice and were successfully worked through, as a result of which wonderful boys and girls were born). The first reason is a conflict with my mother and difficult memories of my childhood. A woman complained that in her first marriage she had a stillborn child, despite the fact that the entire pregnancy proceeded normally and labor began on time. The doctors couldn’t explain it in any way, they wrote something to write off and sent me home. The marriage soon broke up and, according to the client, it was for the better. And now she was in a new union, everything was fine, but there were no children. Doctors found some abnormalities in hormones, but she understood that all the disturbances came from her attitudes and decided to deal with them. In the course of our work with her using methods of treating traumatic points and rewriting childhood memories, it turned out that her mother very often blamed her for her torment, wanted to divorce her whole life from her father, who drank, googled, but did not divorce, telling her daughter at every opportunity “You see what I have to endure for you!?” Thus, the mother shifted her responsibility for life in a state of victim onto her daughter, and she, in turn, decided “I will never give birth to a child so that he does not suffer like I do.” The girl was innocently guilty, because she did not ask her mother to endure anything and did not even ask her to give birth. It turns out that the girl grew up and continued to follow her convictions. In the process of psychotherapy, she reacted to the aggression, pain, and resentment towards her mother suppressed in childhood, and restored her boundaries and her right to a happy family life and motherhood. This was my first client with a request for the problem of getting pregnant and giving birth, and the delight from the insights was off the charts! Now her daughter is already 10 years old. The client herself still has difficulties with building partnerships, but she has definitely cured the topic of mom, dad and her motherhood. In their quest for motherhood, women very often encounter problems that seem insoluble. In my work, I am guided by the fact that there is always a way out, the main thing is the desire to see it.