In addition to the fact that in therapy with a client we have to face our own incomprehensible places, we often deal with the complex feelings of the client himself, which must not only be withstood, but also processed. For example, I feel like I'm being knocked out during a session with a client. And the main task of the therapist here is to go further. To try to “knock it out” somehow describe it in nuances: sometimes it’s fog, drowsiness, boredom, or maybe it’s the atmosphere of an empty place, of no use to anyone, of insecurity. Or maybe it’s this something gray, dilapidated, gloomy, dull, musty, dull, full of rubbish, without air. The atmosphere of deep autumn or old age... Or poverty, lack of resources (money, motivation, strength, claims) to renovate. Perhaps this is a lack of strength or the need to develop, stuckness, a sticky, swampy feeling of a swamp. Or is it traces of destruction, cracks, traces of time, a feeling of stopped or slow time, a pause, freezing, freezing, numbness, depression, meaninglessness, detachment... Everything that whatever you want. And it’s important to try to describe this atmosphere in a metaphor, which is hidden behind the word “cuts down.” And then think about how this is connected with the client’s story. And describe it to him. Maybe this is an attack on living things that was carried out in his family. A living child should not exist. Life must somehow leave the body. And then the task is to think: Where did life go? And then we can return it to the client: somewhere your life is leaking and disappearing, or you should hide it so that it won’t be found and somehow they won’t do something with it, or you You hide the deep inside so that nothing about you is changed, reformatted, or else you wouldn’t be comfortable being alive. Because a living child takes risks, cries, wants... Perhaps, for the sake of safety, you hid yours somewhere deep and it seems to you that I, too, can do something to you. What can I do? How can you protect your Self? What is it in your Self that they could see that they would want to correct, trample on? What could drive your parents crazy and destroy them? What exactly are you afraid to be? How can you be like that? Is it possible to be somewhere else? Like when? How can I get my life back so that I can live and my mother won’t faint? I invite you to work❤