“I can’t do this anymore! He constantly brings me to the boiling point! Every day I cry, upsets me, does everything out of spite,” this is approximately how the parents begin their story in the psychologist’s office about painful. Child-parent relationships in each case cause misunderstanding of the person addressed, bitterness and worry. And if an adult can express what is painful, then a small child often does not understand what he did wrong and what is his fault? Does it hurt you, an adult , but do you think the baby is doing well? Hearing comments every day that he is not like everyone else and does not do as the parent wants is wrong! We adults, at some stage of upbringing, simply forget that the child needs communication, acceptance interests. The child feels bad, he subconsciously reads that he does not meet the expectations of parents and teachers, and does not meet the requirements. At first, the baby tries to prove that he is good and promises that he will listen to you and behave well - the key word. But due to his age and characteristics of emotional development, he fails to cope with the task, and he again acts in the usual way. And in the evening these endless conversations, swearing. You want to scream from mental pain and, perhaps, he screams and gives you feedback! At the same time, he may cover his ears with his hands, because he is tired of listening to the same thing. But this annoys you! And the child begins to believe that there is nothing to love him for. He tried so hard to be good! And it didn’t work out! “That means I’m bad. And then I’ll behave accordingly!” the little man reasons. He has no other experience. We need help! Let’s just imagine for a moment how the baby feels, the one we’ve been waiting for and love for so long! How do you feel, as an adult, when you are reprimanded at work, in your family, and if they do this every day? What will happen to your self-esteem? With your attitude? Many people begin to cry at such moments of awareness. And this is a new path to a meaningful approach to education. I really want the child-parent relationship to be joyful and bring a sense of belonging to the world of love and mutual understanding.