From the author: We talk a lot about how unsettled everything is around. This is especially true for Russians. From personal experience I can say, looking around me, out of 100 people maybe two are able to see beyond their own nose and the Noses of their family... ask a person “What are your goals for a year, for 5, for 100 years,” the answer will be bewilderment or laughter :"I wish I could survive until the end of the week!" “In such and such a state! If only we lived in Europe...” I didn’t watch TV or read newspapers for a long time, there was a lot of work. And so I looked and read it. A picture of universal sadness and horror emerges. We talk a lot about how things are not organized and bad around us. This is especially typical for Russians. Unfortunately, when the USSR, with its philosophy and work with the consciousness of citizens and faith in the country, collapsed, practically nothing came to empty space. I’m a little sorry that this happened, I still managed to be a pioneer and I remember how responsibility, faith in oneself and in the country, mutual support and the correctness of actions were brought up. In addition to personal responsibility, there was also social responsibility in our heads. That era is gone, and its place is in many heads, it has come that it’s bad here and somewhere better. Moreover, they are somehow better on their own, the State does all this BY ITSELF,” and who does the State consist of and where does it begin? From personal experience I can say, looking around me, out of 100 people maybe two are able to see beyond their own nose and Nosiki of your family... ask a person “What are your goals for a year, for 5, for 100 years?” you will receive bewilderment or laughter in response: “I wish I could survive until the end of the week!” “In such and such a state!” Now, if we lived in Europe..." It seems like banal things, but almost few people think about it. And who is building the state that is around you? Who chose them? "Nobody chose them! Yes, all of them!!!!" - I hear in response. And who are they, these people who are in power? Where did they come from? What are their values ​​and goals? As a Psychologist, I suggest that we start with each of us. For this purpose In order for the housewife to have order at home and a delicious dinner, she needs to plan what this order and dinner will look like, do all the steps to put this in order and prepare dinner, and check the result herself before presenting it to others if the result is from the point of view of her requirements. unsuccessful, then draw conclusions and correct it. The scheme is simple and the responsibility is on her. She understands this and does not scold the vacuum cleaner or the weather and the country. And it is hardly the chairman of the government that your entrance is dirty. President, that your children simply throw pieces of paper on the asphalt, and adults leave all the garbage in the forests after picnics. It is hardly the State Duma’s fault that people do not know how to build personal and friendly relationships, do not know how to build happiness in their families and raise healthy children. .Recently I was at negotiations at the Neurological Children's Hospital and it is striking that a smoking mother accuses the state and doctors of not pitying her and her child, who was born defective. It doesn’t even occur to her that the responsibility is within her! And so she screams, swears, writes statements, and runs out in front of the hospital to smoke. Try to think for a minute before you do anything: In what country, with what kind of nature will your children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren live? How will they build relationships and what food will they eat, what forests will they go to and what rivers will they swim in? Now return to today: Do you set goals for self-development of yourself and your health? Are you eating and sleeping right? Do you treat the world with kindness? Do you take responsibility for your life? - ALL THIS INFLUENCES the future of your descendants and the country as a whole, which consists of each of us. Do you set goals for the development of your family? Do I take responsibility for family relationships? Do you know how to love? - ALL THIS INFLUENCES the future of your descendants and the country as a whole, which consists of each of us. You set goals and take responsibility within the framework of your home, yard, environment..