How to go from loneliness to partnership? The path from loneliness to partnership lies through our inner world. Through our beliefs, attitudes, fears, traumas and past experiences. Separately, it is worth noting the influence of family scenarios and generic programs. I write about this in other articles.⠀So, let's imagine a single woman who wants to meet a partner and build a relationship with him. In her imagination, she paints a picture of a wonderful future, in which He makes her happy, and life changes 180 degrees. But in reality, everything happens completely differently.⠀Why? One of the reasons is that she does not take responsibility for her happiness and for her life, but transfers it to the man. The picture is loaded with excessive hopes and expectations, and the Universe lowers it from the airy heavens to solid ground. This can also be influenced by relationships with parents in childhood (did the child feel safe around his parents, did he feel loved and accepted for who he is? it exists), relationships with previous partners (according to what scenario they developed, how the person felt in these relationships, whether the relationship was completed on a psychological level despite the fact that the separation had already occurred).⠀How to go through this path and build partnerships, and not dependent/codependent/destructive relationships?⠀To begin with, you can ask yourself a few questions: - Why do I need a relationship?⠀ - Can I accept that I am currently single and live a fulfilled life or do I live in anticipation of meeting a partner?⠀ - What am I ready/can/want to give to my partner and what do I want to receive in return?⠀- Do I consider myself worthy of being in a relationship with a partner who is good for me?⠀- Am I ready to accept a partner with his characteristics, past experience, etc. or deep down in my heart do I believe that I can change it and “adjust” it to my ideal?⠀- How will I feel and how will I live if I don’t meet a partner who is good for me?- How do I want to feel next to my partner?⠀ The answers to these questions provide important insights and understanding of what you need to work with in order to successfully navigate the path to partnership.⠀Love yourself to everyone! This is the beginning of the beginning.