Who is “Mr. Perfect” here? Respond! How often have you had to deal with criticism from others: at work from your boss, for example, or at home from people close to you... What about self-criticism? Have you ever thought about how often you scold yourself with different words, what the light stands on. A SELF-critic lives in each of us. This is true. But it is precisely this inner voice that often does not allow one to enjoy success, achieve goals, or support oneself. The reality is that a person is very uncomfortable with the criticism of others, but when he himself is not very supportive, it is not so important. Well, it's not always so clear. But, as a rule. But SELF-criticism, self-examination, self-criticism and other variations of these “selves” are destructive (destructive) in nature. No one is an exception in this sense, everyone has an inner voice, which sometimes becomes an internal demon and prevents you from living a full life, enjoying the little things, being a friend and support for yourself, coping with life’s ups and downs, and feeling proud of yourself. Tired of digging into yourself? Can't you leave the thought that you are somehow different? How do you like the idea that no people are perfect? There is no right or wrong in nature. So you can breathe out in this place!!! Is it true! Everyone has compared themselves to someone at least once... Why does this happen? It's simple. As a child, we were told that we should be kind, disciplined, attentive.... and many other things we SHOULD have))) And this can be understood. The costs of education! Not out of malice, of course, from our parents, loved ones, and relatives we received baggage with different life attitudes, such as “Boys shouldn’t cry, it’s a shame!” or “Girls need to be flexible, you can’t argue with elders” and many, many others, everyone can remember their own “kind” list! Only because of those same costs for each of us, already in adulthood, finding ourselves and supporting ourselves is not always possible. Because figuring out where you are now and where you are guided by those same attitudes from the past is a difficult task. It can be difficult to feel your own way. Where are you real in this whole life space?... Can you remember parental attitudes like “Must...”? How can you be friends with them? I don’t know about you, but often when I discover something that’s truly mine, I still want to hide it, get rid of it. And I want to fix myself, as if something is broken somewhere. The biggest mistake: trying to fix yourself, fix yourself. Many of us try our best to be the best version, if there are “betters” then by all means become one of them. How do you like the following thought: “trying to earn someone’s approval, just to be held in high esteem by someone, just to feel approval is a useless job, absolutely thankless!” I, as a psychologist, support the idea that THERE ARE NO BEST, NO RIGHT, NO PERFECT!!! There are us, different, incorrect, dissimilar, alive, in different states, with different resources, attitudes, desires!!! We believe, wait, worry, fear, hide, go ahead, etc. If all this is close to you, know that you are fine!!! And with me too!!! We don't have to be like someone else... It's time to realize this! Learn to support your real, different self. Don't run from yourself!? New realizations to everyone!!! ♥??? Let's allow ourselves to be anyone????????Freedom of choice for everyone! I sincerely wish you self-confidence!