From the author: As a rule, dissatisfaction with relationships comes mainly from women. And then they puzzle over how to keep a man. As a rule, dissatisfaction with relationships comes mainly from women. And then they puzzle over how to keep a man. They are the first to express complaints and dissatisfaction with a man. The gap in the family begins with the woman, whether it is conscious or not. Almost all of my clients understand that by their behavior they pushed their men to cheat and leave. Women destroy relationships, and they turn to specialists for help. They are looking for solutions to problems, sometimes far-fetched. Men take such things more calmly; they are rarely dissatisfied with anything in a relationship. And they rarely look for a solution. It’s easier for him to leave if everything is really bad. But we, women, need to work on ourselves. How a woman provokes a man to leave If a man is fundamentally not satisfied with something, he leaves. A woman in such a situation begins to re-educate the man. And this, as a rule, leads to the fact that the man is no longer satisfied with the relationship and he leaves. Vicious circle. In order not to lead a relationship to a break, a woman needs to understand a man. We need to understand the peculiarities of his psyche. And not only that, you need to be yourself without emotional problems. Often women pull a mask of dissatisfaction over their faces to show a man that he is wrong somewhere. Perhaps he offended the woman in some way, or maybe he just hasn’t confessed his love for a long time. And so the woman walks around with a dissatisfied face, but is silent. This behavior leads straight to the abyss, to a breakup. Why? The man sees a dissatisfied face and draws a simple conclusion. He cannot make a woman happy, he is untenable as a man. His ego is mortally wounded. The man has already admitted his defeat and it will be difficult for him to prove anything further. He will no longer perceive the woman’s words or build a dialogue. After all, inside he considers himself a failure. And he doesn’t want or can’t think about anything else. What a man wants from a woman A man wants to see a happy woman next to him. If she is constantly sad, then you don’t want to come to her. Women think that a man must earn their good mood with compliments, gifts and attention. But the man thinks differently. If he sees a woman’s gloomy face, he decides that now is not the time for gifts and compliments. So he waits for things to get better. And at this time the woman is even more offended. And he is waiting. And everything goes in a circle. Therefore, there is no need to put on a sad mask and expect something romantic about him. Apologies. It is difficult for a man to apologize. If women do this easily, then this is a big problem for him. A man performs any actions from the point of view of the unshakability of his authority. He takes a certain position and does not want to lose it. An apology is an admission of failure at something. And this is a blow to his authority, a way to lose his position, to fall several steps lower. Men do not realize this, but they always act from these motives. To apologize is to give up your authority. For a man, this is a loss. And you will have to survive this loss and restore your previous position later. Therefore, for a man to apologize is not a small thing, as it seems to women. Love. Men and women have different values ​​in a global sense. Women value love, relationships with men and their depth and quality. Men value strength, power, and authority above all else. Their lives are filled with meaning if they are better, stronger and more successful than others. Men cannot live without some kind of competition. Therefore, in order to assert themselves and feel like a full-fledged, accomplished man, they need to work, get promoted, occupy leadership positions and leading positions. If a woman needs feelings and love to feel complete, then a man needs success. This is by the way for those who complain about a lack of attention or words of love. Girls, remember that a man - a hunter - is the person who should provide you and your future offspring with comfort. And if this is exactly the kind of person you see in front of you, then don’t/