Let's continue about relationships! Now there will be a post in defense of the stronger sex👨‍👦 Everywhere you spit, there are perverse narcissists... This is the impression you get if you listen to the girls. It's scary 👻 We psychologists have this sign: if a topic is actively discussed in the information environment, expect a stream of requests and self-made diagnoses. Traits of any personality accentuation can be found in any person, at least one. One is enough to decide that the partner is incapable of emotional intimacy and is a tyrant. Absolutely! They wrote the criteria on the Internet, he does just that! (Pss... Come here, what can I say🤫You also do this sometimes, and I sometimes do this, and that’s all...)👻 The key word is “sometimes”. He never acts differently at all, is that the only way? I'm not saying that narcissists don't exist, they do exist, but there are few of them, and my personal statistics are that 5 out of 10 women have diagnosed their partner. Avoid shortcuts! If you perceive another person through the prism of a generalized problem, then you will definitely find confirmation and ignore facts that refute your conclusion. Let's remember the main criteria?❌Gaslighting, severe devaluation❌Shifting responsibility and blame❌Cruelty, lack of empathy❌Emotional coldness, detachment Now remember when you showed such strategies at least once in your life. Was! When you don’t have the strength, when you’ve had enough of everything, when it’s boiling... If “no, it wasn’t,” then you have not passed the lie scale in this test. In fact, there is a problem in men (and in us):✅Avoidance of dialogue✅Passive aggression, criticism✅Self-justification in an attempt to get rid of guilt✅Inability to express support And that’s all sometimes! Like us. It’s either a lack of emotional resource or a lack of skill. I’ll leave the unpopular opinion ⬇️ I’ll add my anti-fimenism to the catch-up 📢 “Men believe that women should! We are being exploited! I work and take care of the house, and he sits on sofa." It’s a bad situation, of course 😔 There is a solution!" I’m a woman, I have to take care of everyday life? No question 😁 First, second, third and compote 🥘🍛🍰☕ Every day, you love! I’m having fun with this borscht, with pumps, you will experience gastronomic ecstasy twice 😘Only you also have to provide for my family so that I don’t warm my head, how can I take my children to the sea.” All complaints end there. “Yes, I’m a good cook too..., work if you want. .."Relationships based on obligations and mutual benefit can be built, and quite strong ones (in fact, this is how the institution of family arose, after the communal-tribal system private property appeared and the question of inheritance arose, that’s all love 😂) Thank you for your attention to the topic! If you found the article interesting and useful, put “like” and subscribe to my blog on instagram* -> a.vyuga* Instagram belongs to Meta, which is recognized as an extremist organization in Russia.