Trust is probably one of the most important principles of mutual existence. Trusting another with our plans, dreams, victories, torments and fears, each of us expects understanding and support in return. Hoping for approving words from loved ones, we sometimes get something completely different. Who else but parents, spouses, close friends and our own children can be trusted with all this? After all, we trusted them with everything dear to us for many years, we grew up together, grew up together, ate from the same plate together, shared the same bed... And what do we hear from them? - Why did you decide that you could do this? ? Are you ready to sacrifice our money because of your whim? Better get busy... - You won’t succeed, remember how a year ago you tried to do something similar. And what came of it? If you start all this again, I will leave you (you are not for me...). - You are not meant for this, your place... You do not have such talents and qualities. Well, well, let's see how it works out for you... - Don't even think about it, Mashka (Dimka, Petka) has a husband/wife (sister, brother, matchmaker...) who did this and what of it all happened? They are still trying to sort it out... Remember how you did last time, and then we almost went crazy, we were so worried... They catch us in our past mistakes by poking our noses at them, they increase our fear and lack of faith in ourselves and our strengths. They find many failures and disappointments in our past, and we ourselves begin to believe in our own inadequacy and give up on our dreams. And sometimes one gives up forever. We are afraid to go against their will, and we are afraid to lose them and their love, and their need. We agree to live by their rules... And then we begin to tell ourselves and our dreams: - Yes, I probably won’t succeed... I will disgrace myself again and they will laugh at me and reproach me... - This is not all about me, who is waiting for me where, and here at least everything is clear and familiar... - After all, I don’t know how and it’s probably very difficult, for this you need talent, but I don’t have it... Why and why do our close people do this to us ? Why don’t they want to help us and believe that we can cope and bring our plans to life? After all, we, by and large, do not demand anything from them except approval of our intentions... Yes, they are trying to protect us from mistakes, and themselves from worries. Yes, they do it because they love us. Yes, they do this because it seems to them that they know us better than we know ourselves. But they forget that we change with every day we live, with every new situation in our life, with every failure, we cut off the “waste rock”, approaching one step closer to the goal. And the realization of a dream, far from always, costs a lot of money, but then in general it doesn’t cost money, you just need time and desire, and also their faith in us and approval... What can be done in these cases? How to strengthen faith in yourself? What words and beliefs can you find for people important to you? Try the following :1. Find older people, ask them about their regrets, buried dreams of sacrificing their loved ones. Ask them what they think about it now? What would they do then if they could change everything, turn back time?2. Find a quiet corner and imagine yourself at the end of your life. Write yourself a letter from yourself: how old have you lived; what made you happy throughout your life, what made you sad; what do you regret; what you are ready to forgive and what you cannot... What would you advise your today self to do, what to do? And what is important in life and what is not?3. Talk about your desires and calculate in terms of money what it will cost you. Find three reasons why your loved ones will benefit from your dream.