Many girls, looking at women who suffer martyrdom through motherhood and marriage, get tired of being a mother much earlier than this happens to them: “Everyone gives birth and they don’t ask me!” and in the critical moments of childbirth, the intensity of the conflict towards women who bear their share and towards men who only want to impregnate someone is so great that an internal collapse of strength occurs and inside the giving birth woman admits to herself: “I’m not ready for motherhood! " Unpreparedness occurs according to all criteria: mentally, spiritually, physically, emotionally and in all other respects, and all this is a great sacrifice to patriarchy. Even the female flesh itself is tormented, due to the presence of which one has to make many concessions not only to men, but also to the established ancient customs of the female way of life. After giving birth, everything becomes too stressful. You literally have to live with difficulty with a born child, with a chosen man, and deep down you don’t really believe in the happiness of family life, so then, as a rule, from the lack of proper faith in your choice, the family becomes weak, and the child is not always healthy. And not a single holy example of femininity on icons can give an answer why so many predestination awaits a woman with a child. On the contrary, the views of women from icons are also stern, like those of a mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and so on until the beginning of time, when love ceased to be a value in the family. Few people think that in order to have a healthy, active child and meet the man of your life, you still need to live for yourself. Travel to your heart's content, dance, fall in love and fully feel gratitude to life for the gift of femininity. But for most women, the voices of their inner old women literally force them to give birth through the grinding sound of tearing flesh. A caesarean section and a scar after this is a kind of big picture that femininity has been subjected to violence from the stereotypes of society. Much, much in women's fate simply has not come true and will not come true. Over time, the husband will become ordinary, and the children will simply become younger relatives. False motherhood gives nothing to a woman's heart. There will be no fate, and nothing special will happen in the future either. Many girls inflict a life-changing wound on themselves through motherhood. Over time, of course, this wound will heal and everything can still be done in time, but the pain of a caesarean section itself is a powerful internal, suppressed scandal with the one who is now the father of the child. Caesarean section is a consequence of too painful adaptation to the role of mother. I lacked much more love and respect for myself than for the chosen man at the moment of rapprochement. Unfortunately, very often many women strive to be in a couple because of the burning emptiness and self-humiliation in their souls, and pregnancy in this regard happens without real consent to this. If you seriously embark on the path of healing from the consequences of a cesarean section, you will first have to reconsider your relationship with your husband, your in-laws, and then with your family, and then you will have to face the deep-seated annoyance of belonging to the female gender. And then it will be necessary to incredibly strongly awaken the fire of femininity itself, which in the depths of the body bestows life on the most mystical principles of flesh and soul; this will already be the path of a woman shaman. Reaching the very essence of a woman will smooth out the scar along with numerous grievances towards life and men from the height of bliss of being an embodied woman. In the future, self-love will come as a feeling of the most important framework of a personal image, the health of the soul, body and destiny. Along the way, all other typical women’s problems from fibroids to excess weight will go away. Love will become the fateful thread of your whole life. From this perspective, it will become very sad to understand that the one who got married earlier and gave birth is a completely different person. This personality will become a distant memory. The body will have its own color, its own sense of life and sense of time, which knows when to get married, give birth and be a mother. This is very different for all women. Someone will understand through such an experience that they want lots and lots of children.