Today I will tell you about what a person needs to do in order to remain in the role of a “Persecutor” (tyrant, aggressor). I will also tell you about recommendations for leaving the role of the “Persecutor”. In the previous article you can read about the mistakes of the “Rescuer” and recommendations for leaving this role. So, what does a person need to do to remain in the role of the “Persecutor” (tyrant, aggressor).🔸 You need to insist that others meet your expectations. You need to show aggression and express insults towards others, you need to not take responsibility for your actions. You need to blame other people for not solving your problems You need to be absolutely sure that you are right 🔸You need to be sure that the world is cruel and dangerous, perceive it as a place where only the heartless can survive. And what needs to be done to get out of the role of “Persecutor”? Here are the following recommendations: Try to stop blaming other people and the environment. Realize that no one has to conform to your ideas of right and wrong. Because all people are different, situations are different, and if something doesn’t suit you, just stop dealing with it.🔸 Try to accept people with their shortcomings and look at them from the other side - each shortcoming can be called a special quality, dignity and individuality. For you these are disadvantages, but for others these are necessary and important qualities for a comfortable life. We are all different.🔸Pay attention to yourself. Analyze your actions, turn on critical thinking somewhere. Think, can you be perfect? 🔸If you are not satisfied with something, then try to resolve controversial issues peacefully, look for a compromise. Learn to manage your emotions.🔸Try not to interfere in the affairs of others unless you are asked to do so. Even if it seems to you that the other person is acting incorrectly, it is his personal right to do exactly what he considers necessary. This article describes the signs of the role of the “Persecutor” Take care of yourself💗Natalia Ivanova, crisis psychologistSign up for a consultation on WhatsappMy Telegram channel