Name, age and other data have been changed, consent for publication has been obtained from the client. Any coincidence with anyone is excluded. “Just half a year ago I was a lonely young girl and only in my rosy dreams could I imagine myself in a relationship with a man! I sincerely considered myself ugly - a nose halfway across my face, small beady eyes and expressionless thin lips. But I did not lose hope and dreamed with all my heart that one day I would see my “Scarlet Sails” on the horizon and run towards him - my desired and only one. My hair would gently flutter in the sea surf, my prince would solemnly go ashore and ask for my hands. But alas, dreams alone are not enough. Because of my appearance, men still did not notice me. I felt depressed, and all my timid attempts to attract attention did not lead to results, which was also terribly frustrating. It got to the point that I became very irritable and when, once again, I quarreled with my boss, I realized - This can’t happen anymore! There is no sense, only frustration. I’m ruining my nerves, and those around me are shying away from me! I’m slowly turning into a little disheveled monster, always whining and angry at everything and everyone! In the end, if you don’t want to pay attention to me as a woman, then don’t! I wish I had at least a little bit of self-respect and pride, after all! Otherwise, it turns out that all I do is impose myself on the men around me - Here I am - take it! This is clearly not what I would like! Enough. I need to press pause button and take a time out! And take care of your life, your needs, your wants! As a result, I stopped endlessly reproaching myself for “Ugliness” and running after men, trying to always be the focus of their attention! And it really helped me not only take a break, but also understand the futility of my actions. It turns out that I practically began the “hunt” for men, and when they noticed me in a “fighting” mood, their eyes widened and ran away as fast as they could, frantically looking for a darker corner! After my conclusion, for the first time I saw a completely different me in the mirror! I wasn’t ugly - I was different. I was a little different from the generally accepted standards of modern gloss, but this was precisely my individual trait, making me unlike anyone else! Such as I simply didn’t exist in the world! You just need to wave a little brush here, a pencil here and... So, one day, thanks to the fact that I literally tripped over my lifelessly lying feminine pride, my life began to change! "This is such an interesting story that ended meeting your man and having a beautiful wedding! How do you like the story? Share your opinion or story! I will be glad to listen, but in the meantime, taking this moment, I would like to invite you to my new free webinar: “Why increase female value?” The webinar will be held in a closed group on March 4, 2020. To participate, you will need only FB_LINK You liked the article, Subscribe to my channel, share with your friends on social networks. And don’t forget to press the thumbs up! Yuri KudryavtsevPsychologistSign up for consultation WhatsApp+7(903) 964 98 81