From the author: The article was published by me on the website: 07/22/2014 Today we will look at the interaction in a couple: a sanguine parent www.liveexpert.ru/journal/view/454064-sangvinik – a sanguine child www.liveexpert.ru/journal/view/499820-esli-vash-malish-sangvinik On the one hand, knowing the characteristics of your child, his strengths and weaknesses first-hand, it will be quite easy for you, like parents in other couples where the temperament the child coincides with the parent’s temperament, but on the other hand, it is difficult to raise a little person whose behavior is so reminiscent of you. Despite the fact that you know yourself well, your personal characteristics, it is still impossible to predict how your baby will behave in a given situation; not always and not all parents manage to do this. What we perceive as our merits, seeing the same quality in a child, we sometimes become irritated, and much that we forgive ourselves in the child we often do not like and causes indignation and irritation. This happens because we often do not recognize what irritates us in others and therefore we deny that it exists in ourselves. It is always easy for sanguine people to find a common language during moments of relaxation, in joint games, activities, and entertainment, because The life of a sanguine person is either a holiday or an expectation of it. You feel good in such moments, you are active and mobile, you are rarely bored, so it is you who will be able to fill your baby’s life with a wide variety of impressions from birth. But here’s the thing, sometimes you still need to raise children, and you will have to do this too, and this is where many pitfalls arise. So, what should a sanguine parent take into account when raising a sanguine child? It is vitally important for a sanguine child to be taught from early childhood to a certain routine that is understandable and acceptable to him, with strict control over these routine moments. Who, if not you, who knows your peculiarity in the inability to organize time, distribute workloads and adhere to at least some kind of routine at work, understands how important it is to teach a child responsibility and commitment. There is nothing better in the educational process than a personal example, and at the same time you can work on yourself. You will really have to work hard both on yourself and with the child in order to create a clear daily routine for yourself and the child and determine who, when and for what will be responsible for what around the house, making this the responsibility of each family member. Let the mother be responsible for setting the table, while the child lays out the cutlery; dad waters the flowers, and the child sprays them and this should become the norm, i.e. not occasionally, but constantly. Remember that you do not like monotonous and monotonous work, such activity tires you, the same thing happens with your sanguine child, he gets tired and distracted, trying to avoid this “tediousness”, a routine that pushes him to shirk. business A sanguine child easily takes on any new task, starts it with enthusiasm and... abandons it halfway, and you have to make sure that your little sanguine child brings the things he has started to their logical conclusion, since he rarely does this. Accustom him to order and accustom yourself. But don’t overdo it, let yourself and your child sometimes, perhaps on weekends, relax a little and move away from the usual routine. (to be continued)