But let's talk about everything in order. Quite often, women rack their brains over who to give... who to give a chance to become her chosen one, who to give a second chance or a third if it goes well, and who to just give a “turnaround,” as they say. It’s important to do this at the right time. understand and don’t forget that there are also married men who sometimes also disguise themselves quite well, or those who simply cannot be faithful to only one woman, it looks somehow rather boring and even stupid to them. And it is these men who will give you, quite possibly, not only a bouquet of your favorite flowers, but also a “venereological bouquet.” There is no point in giving them any second or third chances. You know, it’s better to have a man who will tell you exactly that, and with a sense of humor, if you suddenly decide to get to know him and ask if he has a girlfriend: “I don’t have a girlfriend, because my wife doesn’t allow me,” and will not start fooling you. It would be nice, of course, if there were as many such honest men as possible. But, by the way, married men are the most courageous and it is they who most often meet women, because they have nothing to lose. As they say, the sea is knee-deep. After all, if you don’t want to, then you always have your own wife at home. But free, single men can take quite a long time to decide to come up and meet that girl who he really really liked and literally fell into his soul. Let's go further: so who is a “wet abuser”? This is the type of man who constantly manipulates the fact that he will not be able to live without you if you leave him. He may cry, ask for forgiveness on his knees and say that this will never happen again (betrayal, for example). But as soon as you believe him and give him, probably, the hundredth chance, he will immediately return to his old ways. Therefore, do not be fooled by all these tearful pleas. And, finally, who is the “ghost man”? This is the type of man who either is or isn’t. He may suddenly disappear, in the evenings, for example, not pick up the phone and not answer your calls and messages - he is now “out of reach,” but then he again, as if nothing had happened, appears on your horizon. Often such men can generally live in two families and therefore he simply cannot “afford” any sudden and unplanned meetings with you or calls from you. At the same time, he always keeps his phone with him when you are near him and does not leave it unattended anywhere, runs to answer calls in another room and generally behaves quite secretively and even strangely. He may even want to check your phone, because if If he is not completely honest with you, then it seems to him that everyone around him is doing the same to him. Therefore, be careful with this type of man and better avoid him altogether. You deserve the best! Good luck to you! My course for women who want to be happy in a relationship with a man: here Discounts on my consultations in April: only 2500 rubles. in 60 min. Whatsapp instead of 3500 rubles. or 1500 rub. for a private text chat instead of 2,500 rubles. Sign up for a consultation with me: here If the article was useful and interesting for you, do not forget to click “thank you” and also subscribe so as not to miss my new articles) Sincerely, Your psychologist, Victoria Kirsta