From the author: relationships between a woman and a manWhat kind of love is there? The love of a mother for a child, the love of a child for a mother, earthly love, sacrificial love, carnal love, tender-romantic love, caramel love and meat love. Let's talk today about love between partners. Even in Ancient Greece, love was distinguished - what it is. Agape - unselfish love, sacrificial, with complete dedication to the object of love in caring for it. Ludus - love-game, flirting, easily allowing betrayal and feelings are not deep , mainly receiving pleasure from mutual communication without attachments. Love, similar to the love-care of parents for children, love is tenderness with care, but allowing the freedom of the partner - storge. And now we come to another type of love - pragma - a mixture of storge and ludus . Love, easily controlled by consciousness, conscious, calculating and pragmatic love. Physical love is attraction, passionate, the ultimate goal of which is physical mastery - - eros. Mania is a mixture of eros and ludus - irrational love-obsession, leading to dependence on the object of attraction. So what is love like? It varies depending on the individual, her predisposition to certain patterns in relationships with partners, depending on age, and whether she is a man or a woman. Young people are more likely to be prone to manic forms of love; mature people are more prone to rational love. Men are more likely to be prone to ludus and agape - more often in women, which is understandable - after all, women are naturally designed to take care of others. It very often happens when a more mature partner experiences love of a protective nature for a younger one - agape love. Eros - love - is common in our time, but an excess of sexual stimuli leads to the fact that physiologically a person becomes constantly ready for sexual relations, in in a sort of slightly excited state. But constant stimulation of physiology leads to a decrease in the sensitivity threshold, which in turn requires an increase in the original stimuli. From here, the condition for the occurrence of arousal is an increase in stimuli so that there is at least some kind of reaction. Perversions - distortions in sexual desire - flow precisely from here. Using an example, this can be explained as follows: a person eats chocolate every day, after a day or two he no longer wants just chocolate, but with nuts, with milk, and when he has tried all kinds of chocolate, he becomes saturated. He tries to melt the chocolate, grind it - but it’s chocolate all the same. In order to feel its taste completely again, it only takes a little to limit its consumption in general for a while and then it will taste delicious again. It's the same with love.