Unfortunately, or fortunately, it depends on how you react to it, but in life everything is not arranged linearly. Everything is confused; a situation, a person, a problem or goal is always influenced by several factors, or many. And it is not possible to control it, but you can learn to manage it. I’ll write about control and management tomorrow, don’t switch) And to achieve the goal you need to act in different parts of this confused space. Both inside and outside. Today is about what you can do inside yourself to move or get closer in the direction of your life. The first thing is to stop fantasizing and being in illusions. It is to look into your reality and love it. This really can be the most difficult thing. If you don’t fall in love, then at least agree with how it is now. Everything is as it is now and should be. Find a point of peace in this place, stop turning away from reality, stop screaming and hysteria - this doesn’t suit me, take it, I want something else. That’s how it is right for me now. I’ll start from this place. Agree this does not mean lying down in powerlessness and despair. Agreeing is looking at what is available with the decision to go further. It’s like getting ready for a trip - calculating how much money you have for tickets, remembering what visas are available, and correlating what you have with where you have the opportunity to go and go. The second thing is to know where you are going. go. What do you want? And surround yourself with it - think, talk, notice in space, communicate with those who have it or who are already there. Create proof for the psyche that this is possible. The third is will. Make an effort. Effective and systematic actions. What did I do today towards my goal? Don’t run around in the hustle and bustle and do a thousand vague things, but do specific actions that bring you closer. Removing the hustle and bustle also means accepting that everything takes time. When we act from a state of peace, from a situation of agreement, time begins to work for us. And here the fourth thing is important. Don't resist change. Many people really want to achieve this, but they are even more afraid of it, and as soon as they begin to approach their goal, they begin to sabotage the process in every possible way. It is important to change the thought - why should I do this? Why and what can I do about it? What can I be happy about now? And am I happy? What have I already achieved? What else can I do? And also? Consent, calmness, concentration and will - this is the recipe for moving through life in pleasure. How are you? Where are you stuck??