Some people do not create relationships for fear of losing them. Especially those who witnessed the divorce of their parents or had their own painful experience. At the end of the article I will share how you can separate these 2 concepts. But more on that later. You got married and immediately love is carrots, passion, but over time the passions subside and everything becomes Usually, everyday life takes over, romance disappears.. What needs to be done and how to behave so that the relationship remains warm, sincere, loving for many years. 12 points that are worth paying attention to: Find pleasant moments, collect situations of respect in the “piggy bank” friend friend. Develop the habit of focusing on the good, not the negative. Work through your traumas. If there are situations that bother you, it means there is something in the past that requires attention and elaboration. Learn to communicate, listen to each other and hear. Listen, and not be at the moment when a loved one says something to you, in your thoughts or on your phone. Think not only about what I want, pay attention to what is important for the other. Work with your egoism, not forgetting about yourself. Support your partner. Do not criticize in front of others and in private, but strive to find words of support. Ask how he wants to receive support, how to react to his words. Express your feelings, and not blame the other for the fact that you are hurt by his words and actions. Work with emotions. This helps you not to overreact to certain events, but to analyze your state and draw conclusions. Find time for yourself. for reflection and work on yourself. Arrange dates with each other. This will bring you closer and add a romantic touch to the relationship. Be more attentive to the needs of the other. Find common interests. Think about what can unite you, where you want to go, how to spend time, what to watch, read, set a common goal. Study your partner’s love language and learn to speak it. First of all, understand your love language, correctly convey this to your partner. I promised to separate 2 concepts: divorce and the pain that arises when remembering it. These concepts have different reasons: divorce from you or your parents is one reason. the pain is created by other reasons .You need to work with this separately and use different methods. Sign up for a consultation by WhatsApp number +79214162430