One sees the other and falls in love without knowing why. What brings them to each other? Something brings them, because they are blind, they don’t know each other at all, and for some reason they are drawn to each other? Are they in love? When they are in love do they see each other? No, they see the image. These are feelings for a while. Then, they suddenly wake up and see that the other is not the same at all. And that's when love comes. Love for another as he is. Love at first sight is falling in love, love at second sight is love. Close your eyes and look at your partner and allow yourself to perceive him as he is and tell him: “I love you the way you are, the way you are, the way you are right for me, I enjoy you the way you are , exactly as you are.” Anyone who could not accept one of his parents will not be able to accept his partner. The one who has not accepted the parent will be disappointed all the time, as he will demand from his partner what he cannot give him... If a parent internally expects something from his partner and does not receive it, then he will expect this from his child . Then, out of love for the parent, the child will begin to give and thereby burden his fate. Without self-love, without accepting yourself as you are, a person is not capable of loving his partner. Often people call love something that has nothing to do with it. There is a simple way to determine your feeling - is it love? Ask yourself a simple question: does your feeling give you strength or take it away? Love gives a person strength. Everything that takes away strength is called differently...