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The questions given here help you begin to get out of any problem situation, setting you up for a solution. Because often we are simply not able to see all aspects of the problem. Like a bee that cannot distinguish objects larger than a flower and, having stumbled upon a person, sincerely does not understand what obstacle it has encountered. But nature is wiser than man: instead of starting a long analysis and identification of the object, the bee simply flies around you. Likewise, in life’s problems it is often easier to find a way out than to understand all aspects. And the answers to the following questions will help you find the right way out: 1. What's wrong with you?2. The goal of therapy, or what do you want to gain instead of problems? 3. Signs: how will you know that you have achieved the desired result, that working with a specialist brings you the desired benefit?4. Where, when, how and with whom do you want to achieve your goal? In Moscow or only after a visit to Paris? By 2070 or maybe earlier? How? To learn English, you still need to not only overcome laziness and create motivation, but also buy a textbook, or in order to recover, you still need to accompany this with some kind of medications or physical therapy... By not filling out this item, you risk it even with super-successful therapy remain a perfectly tuned violin that no one plays. With whom? Business with criminals, or marriage with an alcoholic?5. How will achieving your goal change your daily life? This is a simple, but the most important question, which seems to check - will you really get what you want? Will achieving your goal cripple your life and deprive you of something very important? And in what direction will everything change in 5-7 years?6. And a purely motivating question: what will happen in your life if you don’t achieve results? Psychotherapy still requires material costs and your time. Maybe it's not so scary? Maybe we can live with this a little longer?7. So is it worth getting down to business? Psychotherapy begins with a similar interview. After all, as Lewis Carroll wrote: “If you don’t determine where you want to come, you won’t even realize that you’ve already arrived.” From the data from this interview, a result sheet is compiled, which indicates the goal of psychotherapy and signs by which you can monitor the progress of achieving it. Otherwise, the work process will be no different from “finger in the sky”".