SEXUALITY. (interview for Glamor magazine). This interview was given 10 years ago. I found it by accident and was surprised at what naive and simple topics we were asking ourselves back then... - What is sexuality? I would like to separate sexuality and sexual attractiveness. Sexuality (sensuality) is the ability to experience the full range of feelings - erotic and sexual - excitement, desire, passion, tenderness, satisfaction, orgasm, the ability to give and receive pleasure, the ability to include sexual imagination, fantasies and translate them into reality, to respond to external sexual incentives. Sexual attractiveness is the ability to evoke the same feelings in others. There is also a difference between eroticism and sex. Sex is a need, eros is a passionate desire, the pleasure of sex is a release of tension, from eros is retention, immersion, increased arousal. - What does sexuality depend on? Sexuality depends to a lesser extent on biological factors - hormonal balance, the amount of androgenic hormones, much more to a greater extent (especially in women) - from psychosocial factors: early childhood experience, relationships with parents, first sexual experience. Openness to sensory experience begins very early, and then everything develops depending on each person’s unique story. Childhood experience in relationships develops the ability to trust your body, listen to its sensations, not be afraid of your erotic desires and fantasies, the willingness to entrust yourself to your partner, the ability to continuously feel his condition. - How does our behavior change when we feel sexy? Behavior becomes more relaxed, confident, sometimes provocative, alluring. A woman more freely allows herself to flirt, flirt, hint and invite men to sexual relations with her body, gaze and words; it is easier for her to act and conquer the sexual object that attracts her. - Why is a beautiful girl not always sexy and vice versa? If a girl cannot, for various reasons, experience everything the spectrum of these feelings, if she has inner coldness, constriction, then no matter how beautiful she is, she does not burn inside and cannot light up anyone nearby. The same goes for the opposite - if she is not beautiful, but the fire of sexuality is discernible or burns brightly in her. which beckons and promises great pleasure - she attracts to herself like a magnet. - What is considered sexy now? As always - large breasts, big lips, tight clothes, tattoos, erotic dances, movements - everything that attracts attention to the body and causes erotic and sexual fantasies. A very powerful sexual stimulus is teasing, teasing, which includes promise, avoidance, seduction and refusal. - Why is it believed that red lipstick and high heels are sexy? Red lips are a symbol of other lips, a symbol of the female genital organs, and the redder they are, the more they hint at excitement, that the woman is waiting for sex and is ready for it. in addition, the red color in itself attracts, attracts, is associated with something dangerous, fatal, passionate. Heels can be associated with male genitals, penetration, sex, in addition, they lengthen legs, change posture, make the body more attractive and graceful.