From the author: What the relationship between a man and a woman will be depends half on the man’s behavior in the relationship, half on the woman’s behavior. In the article, read about how women sometimes behave in relationships and how this affects the behavior of men. Most women dream of being loved and really expect their men to show care and attention. Some women know how to receive this care and attention and receive it, but some do not know how, cannot, something doesn’t work out for them. As soon as they begin to seek attention and care, their relationship, on the contrary, as if due to someone’s evil intent, becomes worse, the man begins to move away, and despair and melancholy appear in the woman’s soul. Sometimes this happens when a woman finds herself in a relationship “not with that" man - for example, if a man is hot-tempered, does not know how to show care at all, is rude, despotic, raises his hand to his wife, or is, in principle, indifferent to people in life. In these cases, it is basically impossible to receive attention and care, because the person has certain character traits, perhaps even a mental disorder. In these situations, it is difficult to do anything to make the relationship better, due to the deformation of the man’s character. And there are other situations when a man, in general, can show concern (he used to show, or is now showing towards someone close to him) , but towards his woman he is cold and inattentive. If the relationship between a man and a woman continues, then you can work on it in order to restore the emotional connection. “Working on relationships” does not mean at all that you need to demand something from your husband, try to influence his behavior, lead him to a psychologist, or, as some women do, to a grandmother or fortune teller. First of all, you need to pay attention to yourself, your beloved, and observe, think: what am I doing in a relationship, how do I behave? Relationships depend not only on the man, but on both in the couple, it turns out that 50% of the responsibility for the relationship lies with the man, 50% - on a woman. So, what behavior of a woman in a relationship can lead to a man’s distance and coldness? Situation 1. A woman requires attention, care, and careful attitude. She throws tantrums when a man doesn't do something that is important to her. For example, a woman is expecting flowers for her birthday, but the man does not bring them on time, and the woman starts a scandal. Or, what has an even more serious impact on relationships - when a woman notices that she lacks care and she suggests breaking up in order to “scare” the man (to make him appreciate him more). This behavior of a woman carries a message to a man: “you are not important to me,” “you are not valuable to me.” It is unlikely that a man will want to be more attentive and caring after such devaluation. If the relationship continues, then the man will not want to show more attention; he will likely be even colder and more distant from the relationship than before the proposal to leave. In general, women’s demandingness comes from the belief that the man owes something (to be attentive, caring, to bring money to family, spending time with children, etc.). However, such a strict set of requirements for a man leads to the fact that we see in a man not a person, but some kind of functionality. A kind of robot that must perform the tasks assigned to it and act according to instructions. Some men who have a developed sense of duty may agree to such an alliance in which everything is built on demands, but there will be no emotional connection in such an alliance. What is called - “you can live, but you cannot fly.” Other men, having heard the list of demands, will simply run away at the first opportunity, because you want to be loved as a person, and not just because you know how to bring money into the house and wash the dishes after yourself. Situation 2. A woman does not looking for a way to come to an agreement with a man, but starts doing everything herself: changing light bulbs, hammering nails. Such female behavior carries a message for a man: “you are not irreplaceable, I can manage without you.” This!