Loans and debts: psychological reasons for their occurrence and methods of work [author's article] Let's talk today about one of the most important enemies of material well-being - debts and loans. Let's talk about the psychological, internal causes of debts and loans in a person's life. end at link Unfortunately, most loans and debts are classified as “dysfunctional”. That is, they do not lead to the development and improvement of your life and material wealth. It’s as if they’re lying there like an unbearable weight, draining the last of the juices. To understand the psychological reasons for what happens to us in real life, it is necessary to look at reality from the outside, like a film or story, where all the participants in what is happening are parts of you, your subpersonalities. Your internal figures, between whom a certain scenario is played out. It is not always pleasant and desirable for you, as the main character of this story. If we look at the issue of debts and loans from this position, we will see the following. When we take out a loan or debt, we take on a certain role, position. This is the position of the Debtor: I must/should. BUT!! The debtor cannot exist on his own. A second figure is needed - the one to whom it is owed, the Creditor. In real life, this role can be played by the bank where you took out the loan. Another person who lent you money, etc. But before the Creditor appeared in your real life, he must have been inside you. After all, we remember the basic rule: all events, people and circumstances that arise in our real life have their analogue and root cause in our inner space. And as a rule, what we “don’t see” in ourselves, we don’t accept – we project it, transfer it onto other people. Or to non-living objects (in our case, banks and other financial institutions). ending at the link And in case of problems with loans and debts, the following happens. A person consciously takes on the role of a Debtor. And he projects his inner Lender onto someone or something in the outside world. That is, the role of the Lender is not accepted, it is suppressed. What is the role of the Lender? Essentially, in the position: you owe me. Sincerely, doctor-psychotherapist Timofey Aksaev