The secret is that until you become interesting to yourself, no one will be interested in you, including men. And this is by no means about the external state of affairs. The fact is that we, women, spend a lot of time and resources on our appearance: we give over-importance to wrinkles and extra pounds - and all because it is easier to shift our internal dissatisfaction to the visible than to understand subtleties of mental processes.Basically, the quality of relationships depends on how we feel and live ourselves internally, what energy comes from us, what we broadcast about ourselves to a man and the world. The nuance is that our traumas do not disappear on their own; they go into the unconscious and remain inside us, distorting our inner sense of self and affecting relationships with others. Imagine two magnificent vases. One is filled with grievances, claims, sadness, pain, anxiety, irritation, loneliness, mistrust, rejection, disappointment, rejection, guilt and shame. And the other is full of joy, happiness, pleasure, peace, harmony, warmth, tenderness, acceptance, confidence, freedom, prosperity and love. Which of the vases will a man want to touch? How about taking it with your hands? And you? Each of us is not one of these vases. Each of us is a third, in which the ingredients of both vases are combined, but the proportions are different. I think none of you will deny that it is more pleasant to touch and hold in your hands the one where the proportion of positive ingredients is greater. They work with feminine nature, the ability to change the state, the ability to be a woman with intelligence and dignity in therapy. And only when a woman is internally filled with well-being, she gains the ability to share it out of abundance, becoming truly valuable and interesting for men. We start working on this and much more in the course “The Art of Being in Relationships” on February 27th - deeply, beautifully and with the Soul - as I love. All questions can be asked in the comments, I will answer each of you. Read more about the course here: http://quantpsi.ru/iskusstvo-byt-v-otnosheniyah You can sign up for a consultation by calling 8-913-220- 8884or through the website