Alas, husbands sometimes leave. This happens for a variety of reasons. Someone voices them, someone names motives that seem completely insufficient for separation. In any case, there is only one outcome - the husband left the common territory, but you are radically dissatisfied with the current state of affairs. What to do and what to do if life without a loved one is not possible? Unfortunately, at certain stages of family life, relationship crises are possible, when a man becomes the most “vulnerable” as an element of the family. Most often, they coincide with a change in the family’s usual way of life - for example, pregnancy and the birth of a child, to whom women’s attention switches. Also, provoking moments can be the wife’s new interests - a passion for business or a transition to a new job that takes more time and effort. During such periods, there is an increased likelihood of betrayal, sudden falling in love on the side, and the feeling that next to such a familiar “house” wife, life is dull and uninteresting. It is not easy to predict what such situations will lead to; in each individual case they develop individually. But the most realistic are two simple options: the husband either leaves for good (to another woman, or into the exciting abyss of bachelor life), or returns to the family after some time. At this stage, the woman must decide for herself whether she is really ready to forgive her husband and whether she can accept him back if events develop according to the second scenario. She also needs to decide whether to seek confirmation of her fears if there was no evidence of betrayal. Usually the woman herself does not know what she will do with the evidence, but she will have to do something, so is it worth looking for? How should a woman behave if she is sure that the return of her husband is what she needs? Experience shows that wait-and-see tactics are much more effective than “enchanting” showdowns, intrigues and scandals. The main thing is not to go too far and not to forget about your own dignity. By begging your departed husband to return, swearing and vowing to become the best and most comfortable wife for him, you can achieve what you want, but you are unlikely to be satisfied with the relationship that has developed after such behavior. In addition, a man who is forced to return in response to mountains of gold promised to him or “out of pity” most often returns for a short time. It is best not to escalate the situation, behave calmly and with dignity, without begging your ex-spouse for anything, but also without making it clear that there is no turning back. If the family has common children, do not interfere with the father’s meetings with them and his coming to the house . Willy-nilly, you will have to communicate, and for you this is an excellent chance to prove yourself as a calm, balanced, positive-minded woman. Smooth, friendly relations between former spouses are also needed by children, who absolutely should not be present during showdowns and scandals between parents. Try to make an effort on yourself, and again and again tune in for the best. Of course, resentment and anger are understandable and natural feelings in this situation. Therefore, if you can’t control yourself all the time, you shouldn’t reproach yourself for “breakdowns.” It’s better to tune in to a positive mood in advance, for example, please yourself with something, meet with friends, and, ultimately, just meditate. After all, what is really crying and suffering is your inner child, who has been abandoned and betrayed. And he needs your attention and care no less than your own children, who are having a hard time with their father’s care. Support and encourage your inner child, and he will “behave well” and will not let you down. Life is unpredictable, and any situation can be resolved in the most favorable way for you, and a conflict or an accidental affair with your husband can resolve itself. Now you, a woman whom your husband sees several hours a day/week, have every chance of looking more advantageous than the one who spends almost all the time next to you. There is no need to try to provoke in your husband.