I’m writing this article now and I understand that I was simultaneously in two codependent relationships. And these relationships are not with men. In the first part (read) I talked about my first codependency on a loved one from the family circle and how I got out of it. The second codependent relationship was with a person from the circle of best friends. On the one hand, our friendship was so strong, we supported, trusted each other 100%, traveled, laughed a lot. We seemed so happy. But there was also the other side of the coin: I was very emotionally dependent on this person. How did this manifest itself? I could never refuse a person. I always agreed. I didn’t express my opinion. I idolized the person. I did everything he asked me, even if I was uncomfortable, if I wanted to sleep, or just didn’t want to do it, but I did it anyway. Why was I so dependent on the person? Because inside me there was a feeling that no one loved me, I was somehow different, I was stupid, I didn’t deserve better. And this man gave me love, support, care, told me how cool and cool I was! People get into codependent relationships due to low self-esteem, feelings of being unloved and a feeling of worthlessness and uselessness. How did I get out of this relationship? I worked on my self-esteem and self-confidence using hypnosis. As a result, one day I told a person no and began to express my opinion. We started quarreling and arguing a lot. They stopped communicating. I understood that no matter how hard it was for me, I had to get through it. We broke off the relationship. On the one hand, I had great relief, and on the other hand, the pain of separation, anger, hatred. Relief, because I had wanted to break up for a long time, but was afraid to admit it. Plus, I was not ready for fear of losing the support and love that the person gave me. But as soon as I began to raise my self-esteem, give myself love, heal my childhood traumas through work in hypnotherapy, I was ready to leave, and we did it. If you understand that you are now in a codependent relationship, you are tired of it, you don’t feel free, come work on your self-esteem and confidence. This is the only thing that has helped me, my clients, and will help you. Sign up for an introductory consultation here. Price 800 rub..