Compromise is making a decision that meets the needs of the two parties negotiating. There is another opinion that compromise is an agreement to endure the unpleasant one at a time. Is it so? Is there any point in compromise? If in a relationship one wins and the other loses and does not get what he wants, even if the roles change from time to time, then general dissatisfaction brews, people begin to experience unpleasant emotions, get angry that they have to do something they don’t like. There may be a feeling that your partner is to blame, that you have to put up with it, and that you are not completely happy. In compromise, you expect something in the future in exchange for your discomfort in the present. The key to resolving this issue is to shift your focus from the negative to the positive. All people, by and large, strive for love and, therefore, talking from a feeling of intimacy, rather than struggle, will be the best solution. When we talk about what we want and together think about how we can get it, a healthier dialogue is built. In addition, a more effective strategy for behavior when a partner is dissatisfied with something is not to take criticism with hostility and resist, but to think Whether the behavior being discussed is truly beneficial to you, it would be to your benefit to change it. You can choose to change without expecting anything in return, it will benefit you. If it happens that you are not ready for changes, then your partner will think about whether he can be calm with this. To reach an agreement, it is important not to fight or attack, to recognize the importance of your own and others’ needs, and to discuss the issue peacefully and in a neutral voice. When looking for an alternative solution, you need to make sure that no one will suffer, that this agreement suits both. And reserve the right to revise decisions, finalize details, be creative. Dear readers, how do you feel about compromises? I will be glad to see your likes and comments! Subscribe to the author so as not to miss other publications. To sign up for an individual psychological consultation, send me a message https://www.b17.ru/tatianapereval/#contact or write to.+79247134881.