How nice it is to hug and kiss a small, dear, such an extraordinarily beautiful child. What a pleasure to hear peaceful snoring and inhale the aroma of your beloved and beloved child. How tenderly a child snuggles and hugs in a dream. So much sincere trust and calm. We present a picture of a wonderful, peaceful and happy family. Dad, mom and baby sleep together. At first glance, the situation is completely harmless, even pleasant, creating an atmosphere of tenderness and love. Sweet and gentle, wonderful and beautiful baby feels good in his parents’ bed. He is comfortable and enjoying himself. Together with him, we, parents, experience joy and peace. This can go on for a year, a second, a third, a fourth... And a completely natural moment comes that, having his own crib, this mischievous and affectionate, dearly loved child, in the evening, before going to bed, automatically jumps into his parents’ bed and “purrs” sweetly. and wraps himself in a blanket, getting ready for bed. And for us, parents, it’s already becoming cramped, the child is growing, taking up more and more space, and as a result creating certain inconveniences. We begin to move him to his crib - and there the baby feels bad. He either gets sick or is capricious, and we succumb to his tricks, take him to our bed, where he sweetly falls asleep. Most often, selfless fathers, who are tender to their wife and child, make a sacrifice - they leave the marital bed. They sleep on the sofa, on the floor, anywhere, so as not to disturb the family peace. There are two people left in the marital bed - mother and child. It seems like a completely harmless situation. The husband sleeps separately, mother and child sleep together. In this situation, a moment occurs - psychological incest, substitution of concepts, substitution of spouses. I understand that a bed is just furniture designed for sleeping. But this is not just a bed, it is a “marital bed”. A place for spouses. The matrimonial bed is the holy of holies where husband and wife meet alone to celebrate their love for each other. What does a child do in the marital bed? There is no place for a child in the marital bed! This is dangerous for the relationship between spouses, dangerous for the formation of the child’s personality and his psychosexual development. The situation is dangerous for the whole family! Protect your marital bed from the encroachments of our dearly beloved children. Our beloved and sweet babies have their own place to sleep, they have their own place to live. Let them, the kids, develop naturally and safely. The baby has his own bed - it is useful for them, as well as his place in their life. Ours, the marital bed, is a territory of intimacy for spouses, a territory of interest for each other, a territory of passion. A relationship of passion concerns only two people, and there is no room for a child there..