One of the most popular topics among those who have at least once separated from their beloved and one of the frequently asked questions during our consultation. Of course, we do not take into account when you yourself decided to leave for some reason, although this question also takes place here. Today we will consider how to behave if the breakup was her initiative. A breakup is always unpleasant, painful and stressful on the verge of passion. Emotional shock can reach its peak, which itself is not very good, as it can push you into rash actions. After a breakup, you shouldn’t make typical mistakes. 1. Don’t build illusions. After a breakup, you shouldn’t build fabulous illusions around yourself that your ex-girlfriend will grieve and come back, and even will beg you to start all over again. Stop! You broke up, that’s all, illusions on this basis need to be nipped in the bud, otherwise there will be problems. 2. Don’t communicate. You don’t need to continue communicating with her, as if nothing happened. You create a dead-end situation for yourself and cannot start a new life. And she may not understand how to behave with you further. 3. Don’t overload. Even if you really want to get her back as soon as possible and no matter what happens, don’t even think about showering her with gifts. By doing so, you only arouse pity for yourself and lose the balance of significance in her eyes. And then you commit utopia in an already collapsed relationship. 4. Be adequate. Don’t stalk her, don’t write to her in all messengers and social networks. Don’t try to find out from mutual friends where she is, who she’s with. If she has a boyfriend, under no circumstances threaten him and God forbid her either. 5. Don’t drink. Blue has never brought anyone to any good in such matters. Even if you couldn’t hold it in and got drunk, under no circumstances write or call her. Otherwise, you’ll say something on the blue bench that you can’t rewind later. Or even “better”, aggression will be directed at her and you will begin to dump all your anger on her. This will completely ruin everything. 6. Don’t interfere with friends and relatives. A big mistake would be to influence your ex in every possible way through friends and relatives. Even if you manage to convince her through the environment to return to you, it will be a forced, imposed decision, which, most likely, both will have to regret. Or she will distance herself even more from you and block you everywhere. Well, remember that this is humiliation. Thus, taking into account the psychology of guys after a breakup, the only right decision would be to take a break and stop all contacts with her and her environment. This way you will not fall in her eyes, and she will have pleasant memories of you, which can become the basis for a possible restoration of the relationship. You will save a whole lot of nerves, they will certainly come in handy in the future, even if you decide to finally end any relationship with this person. And for a more environmentally friendly return of your ex and restoration of your masculine core and psycho-emotional state, write to me! And I will definitely help you. If your girlfriend or wife left you? If your marriage is bursting at the seams on the verge of divorce? Need help getting rid of love addiction or developing yourself? Need help finding yourself? Or are there any other requests? Write to me - we’ll figure it out and solve your problem!