Have you ever encountered the fact that other people's opinions greatly influence your life? Thoughts about what other people will say or think about you can poison your life. There is a powerful practice that allows you to cope with this destructive need. Remember the Rorschach test, the essence of which is to look at an inkblot and describe what you see in it. So imagine that you are an inkblot. And now a person is looking at you, but does what he sees characterize the spot? No. This characterizes the beholder. Specific qualities may anger one person, but may please another. Research shows that we are attracted to people who are similar to ourselves. This looks especially good on characters who have negative qualities. The more hot-tempered and aggressive a person is, the greater the chance that he will be attracted to exactly the same person. Not only personal characteristics affect other people’s perception of you. There are a number of other components - mood, problems at work or at home, depression, etc. However, these factors are not related to you personally; rather, how the interlocutor will answer you depends on them. Study the features of your thinking. Often we unconsciously attribute negative thoughts to others that in reality do not exist. Look from the outside at your own distortions. What do you think about yourself and others? How fair are you? What thoughts do you have before, after, and while interacting with other people? Be honest when answering these questions. Remember that negativity and neutrality are not the same thing. Sometimes, when a person is neutral towards us, we automatically attribute a negative manifestation to him. If someone is busy with his own business, this does not mean that he is avoiding you. If you constantly look somewhere for rejection, negativity and criticism in your address - you will find it. Subconsciously. Not a single person in the world can please the other 7 billion people. It `s naturally. There will always be those who don’t like you, and such a person can be met anywhere - among friends, among colleagues, and just on the street. All you have to do is accept it and live your life.