From the author: my VKontakte group It is not surprising, but our first crisis appears in the first second of birth. As soon as a child is born, he experiences stress. Why? It's very simple, the child changes his environment. He developed in the water, a warm, quiet and peaceful place where he could feel his mother and distantly hear voices. And then he comes to land where all the receptors are activated simultaneously. Dry, loud, bright light, someone touches your skin, something happens. There is nothing you can do about this crisis, and there is no need to. It goes away over time as the child gets used to the new place. crisis age 1 year The child begins to explore the world on his own. Previously, he could not walk and everything boiled down to being fed, washed and changed. If they wanted to talk, they talked; if they didn’t want, they didn’t talk. And at this age, the child begins to explore the apartment, try to reach everything, try everything and shove everything into his mouth. And then the child is faced with the first parental “no”. He does not understand what is happening and begins to be sincerely indignant when he hears for the second time - “impossible.” He does not understand the reason for the refusal and tries in every possible way to convey his dissatisfaction and tries to convince his parents that it is still possible. But a child of one year old cannot speak. This is how the will of a little person for the first time collides with the will of an adult. A child at this age already wants to do everything himself. Mothers here need to understand that their child is reaching the level of awareness and most often before their birthday they seem to move away from their parents. They become independent and want more freedom. How does the baby feel? The main discovery during this period for the child is that mom and dad are adults. They are not like him. They are allowed more than him, they can do more than him. For the first time, the baby realizes himself as an individual, separate from his mother, and begins to show character. When a little man is going through a crisis of one year, it seems to him that you forbid him to chew wires and collect cigarette butts on the street because you don’t love him. He does not understand how these items differ from “allowed” items. He is sure that you are hindering his knowledge of the world and his development with your prohibitions. At this age, your child already wants to command you, and not you. He wants to choose when to walk, when to play, to wash and eat. And his most important desire is to communicate and be understood. But since the one-year-old baby still has a problem with speech and cannot clearly express his thoughts and desires, the parents do not understand him and this makes the child angry and offended. He will get angry if you show him how to hold a book correctly or dress him yourself. Show your child how to wash his hands before eating, how to hold a spoon himself, press the bell when he comes from a walk, etc. It is necessary to cultivate responsibility and independence in a child from early childhood. What should not be done when a child has a crisis of one year? As you already understand, a developmental crisis is a natural process. So, you should not reproach your child and assume that he is to blame for you. Don’t be nervous, don’t yell at your child and don’t say rude words to him. Give your child more space for games - don’t snatch from the baby’s hands everything that is not specifically intended for games. Just put all fragile, sharp and expensive things up high, and you can let the child play with the rest. Mom especially keeps a lot of interesting things in her kitchen - jar lids, unbreakable plates, spoons, a funnel for liquids, etc. The way you see objects does not mean that the child sees these objects the same way. For him, everything can become a toy and this is very important! It is at this moment that the child develops creativity and a different view of objects. During the year, you can begin activities that the child would not have appreciated before. Buy your baby some finger paints, a baby pipe, etc. It is during a developmental crisis that a child is more attracted to everything new and unknown than ever before. DO NOT start indulging all the child’s whims, do not indulge-92538816_24