Into the underworld on behalf of Aphorodite, her mother-in-law, she had in her hands two cakes, a couple of coins and a strict order: not to extend a hand of salvation to those drowning in the waters of an underground river. The secret meaning of the cruel order is simple: she would have to let go of the bread and coins. And she would not be able to return back to earth. She would have remained in hell forever. Psychologists have slightly altered the fairy tale and say the following words: “I don’t work without a request.” And business people say: “initiatives are punishable.” And this is about how to become a Rescuer and how not to fall into the game under called the “Karpman Triangle”, in which the rescuer becomes either a tyrant, then a victim, then again a rescuer. I told all three stories to a Client who, while we were working with her body, complained about her “callousness” towards her eternally suffering friend. Like, all the other friends went to her with handkerchiefs and vests, but she proposed a solution to the problem and did not go anywhere. What would have happened if Tanya had gone to see the crying Lisa? Moreover, without a request on her part? Tanya would play the role of the Rescuer for Lisa, who is in the position of the Victim. When Tanya would get tired of the role of the rescuer, realizing that Lisa is determined to cry all her life, she would get angry and begin to criticize her friend. At this moment, Tanya would turn into a Tyrant (Aggressor). Then Tanya would be offended by Lisa because, despite all the efforts and all the criticism, things did not improve for her. And Tanya would become a Victim. Because those who complain and are offended are in exactly the same position. I am pleased to see Tanya’s healthy psyche. But it’s sad that Tanya considers this NOT the norm, since she is in the minority among her friends. The rest of her friends are included in Lisa’s trauma. Surely they have reasons for this - secondary benefits. Because each Rescuer primarily serves his own personal neurosis. Each Tyrant, by criticizing, becomes a “better” and more “correct” person. Tanya doesn't feel any need to get involved. But she feels that she seems to have “fallen out” of the general hysteria. Do you often see uninvolved people? Irina Nikolaevna PaninaDoctor of psychology, hypnologist, tarot readerTogether we will find the path to your hidden capabilities!