She is looking for someone who has a place for her inside him, like in a vessel. This place is THAT when a man is missing something, something he needs. And the woman tries on whether she can FILL this need for a man. If she thinks that she can do it, she quickly takes on the appearance of this need and she and the man become a couple, for the duration of HIS need and HER ability to fill it. Especially what a man lacks, you can understand from women with hysterical traits - they clearly depict a man. What a woman begins to do zealously is a man’s dream. This is a completely normal phenomenon, it is widespread, in fact, it is a mechanism of interaction between the two sexes. For example, Kate from Shakespeare’s comedy “The Taming of the Shrew” has hysterical features. When she finally decided to look at the groom as a man, she saw in him his desire - to be taken care of like a child, and to hide his vulnerability in his brutality, deliberate sloppiness, i.e. demonstrated a complete male world of freedom from socialization. She provided him with his dream. But not for long - because this is a comedy and it always has subtext. THE SAME WOMAN with one man is soft (Cleopatra and Caesar), and with the other she is commanding (Cleopatra and Anthony). And all because she understands that at the moment he needs him to be successful. At the same time, she is interested in the content of his case and helps. For example, the heroine from Chekhov’s story “Darling”: she got married 3 times and always became an expert in the work that her husband did: she knows everything about acting, then about the timber trade, then about veterinary medicine. But time passes and people change . And his needs change. And what a man lacked yesterday, he no longer needs. And just like a woman. Her needs have changed, and she no longer feels able to fill THIS need in a man. This happens slowly, the need gradually changes, and the realization that I no longer want this, but want something else, arises instantly, abruptly, and it seems that dislike is suddenly she herself appeared from somewhere like an irritation, like the beginning of dreams about someone else, about some kind of mythical freedom. There's nothing personal here. It's just a change of needs. And I would be glad that they did not change - “Stop for a moment, you are so beautiful!” - but this is beyond the power of man. Dear reader! Let's exchange opinions on this matter. Contact me for help not only if you want to solve your problem, but also if you want a higher quality of your life, to achieve greater success in all areas of life. Appointment only SMS +79119887123, WhatsApp.