We so often do not appreciate what we have. And we can easily give up what we have been working on for years on dreams, desires and situations, what we wanted and want. We fall into the illusion that we will find a partner even better than we were, but over time comes disappointment and a return to past memories, that what we were looking for is not there. Many people think that there is some kind of prescription or fate. There is no destiny. We ourselves build our reality and our lives. Life is multifaceted and multivariate. We are the creators of our own reality. There is a particle of God in everyone's soul. No one controls your life unless you want it yourself. No clairvoyants or psychics can tell you your future, and if they do, they see one of the roads. It is your right to agree with what was said or not. Many people program their consciousness after such meetings, so it can come true. Quite often they don’t come true. I always tell my clients that you are the creators of your own reality. When communicating with palmists, many talk about the multivariate nature of future events, and the line on the hand can change in one night. Sometimes chance and luck appear for a specific period of time. You are offered a promotion, a new position, you meet a person with whom all areas of life automatically and easily begin to improve. I have a friend who regrets, 25 years later, that he left his family. His wife was golden. In this relationship, next to such a woman, he rose, received everything he dreamed and desired, but because of his programs he decided to leave the family. Then the wheel of fortune may turn in the other direction, and the person who was missed already lives a different life. We so often don't appreciate what we have. And we can easily give up what we have been working on for years on dreams, desires and situations, what we wanted and want. We fall into the illusion that we will find a partner even better than we were, but over time comes disappointment and a return to past memories, that what we were looking for is not there. And as a result, loneliness or superficial short-term relationships arise, because few are ready for deep relationships and everyone seems alien and more and more disappointment occurs. Many close down, and some completely drink themselves to death. And they decide to find only sex for health. But this is dirt, endlessly changing partners, momentary pleasure, but the soul becomes even worse and more painful. I see many with glassy eyes, a dead look, where there is no joy and happiness. There are so many dissatisfied people around and offended by life. The mask of happiness is only a mask, where deep down there is only pain. Building a harmonious long-term relationship between a man and a woman is determined by three aspects: craving for the body (passion), craving for the soul (feelings), spiritual craving (general meta values). Not all people you like can resonate with you on all three aspects. If one is lame, the relationship is doomed to fail. Love, respect, appreciate, care for each other, trust each other, understand each other, show attention, support each other, inspire, and so on. Until you understand your strategy, you can sit in the problem and figure it out for years. Self-help is possible, but it takes a long time. With a psychologist you can recover much faster. Even I always have a supervisor. Thus, I can quickly solve my problems and work through the pain, realize, let go and accept the event and situation with gratitude. In this way I become wiser, happier, kinder, more joyful and there is no empty vessel. And new facets open up in professional activity, in creativity and in any life situations and events.