When you reach such a point in a relationship that you realize that you have different values ​​with your partner, the simplest thing you can do is separate. But you don’t end a relationship because of differences in taste preferences. One has breakfast only with cereal, the other with sandwiches with sausage - but you are together. Nature created a man and a woman different, that’s why they are interested in being together, that’s why they are attracted to each other. A man can never become like a woman, and a woman can never become like a man. If you have different values, that’s great! You will not be interested in having a relationship with someone who is completely similar to you. Relationships between a man and a woman are based on two important aspects. The first is the existence of differences in which you are interested. Appreciate difference, don't fight it. There is no need to remake someone else to suit you. Subjugating another does not create a happy relationship. Relationships arise when the other one rejoices next to me. And this will not happen if you do not give your partner freedom, if you do not allow him to reveal your characteristics, if you constantly criticize. The second is the presence of something in common. Caring for children, common goals and plans, common interests, views, etc. It is always important to find this commonality, discuss, feel that you are on the same wavelength, strive for something together. If now you do not see common connections, discuss, think about what has united you all this time. In what ways are you similar and what do you equally strive for? What are your differences? Why do you value your partner? What should a healthy relationship be like? The simplest answer to this question is that people in healthy relationships are happy together, but can also live joyfully and fully without each other. In a healthy relationship there is no place for immaturity and expectations that someone will take responsibility for your material, physical or emotional well-being . You can do this yourself. You know how to negotiate and make decisions together, taking into account each other’s interests. You don’t dissolve into each other - everyone has their own life, their own interests. You don't change to please someone else. You accept each other's past. Yes, it may be unpleasant to realize that he/she could love someone else, but that is part of life. You support each other in your endeavors. You are genuinely interested in knowing what your partner is passionate about. A healthy relationship is, first of all, an opportunity to choose and a very strong friendship. If you feel that independent work does not bring the desired result, come for a consultation. You can work on your relationships by making them healthy and harmonious, while choosing yourself. Sign up for a free diagnostic More about me